
It's not the age gap that's annoying its the fact maybe cz he knew him since he was a kid idk... is it possible to start liking someone who was way younger than you and now that's he is old you find him attractive, I have suffered from this from multiple men I knew as a kid and now see me differently and I totally despise the feeling. It's disgusting even if they didn't know me but them knowing me since I was a kid makes it alot worse

Do men really do those stuff and thinks it's them not being attracted to eachother? Genuinely curious, no harming intentions

yes. sometimes there is genuine experimentation that's just curiosity & opportunism, but a lot of it is social pressure and denial. also we are fucking stupid. most of us genuinely do not think anger is an emotion, so imagine how little we understand of attraction. but of course, anyone can be involved with people they're not attracted to as well.
honestly, the "gaycation" is probably one of the best posts about this kind of odd justification men do, if you haven't read the post, please look it up, it's insane.
Wow who'd thought that would make cry