Hmm I don't get it. How could the father already had gone through it and just be the exactly same like his UK trauma. I think SEO an's father actually care about his child more than he thinks i mean if he doesn't why would he try to keep asking for seo an to stand on his two feet and get back to work he could just depend on his eldest child or don't give a shit for all what he cares but no
Generational trauma is very much a thing. The dad likely rationalised his own trauma and thought it was okay/normal to do. You can feel sorry for him without downplaying what he did or pretending that he has a heart of gold buried under the abuse. I think you should reread what he said to his son when Seo An took a baseball bat to his head/back. Calling your kid an idiot, saying you're not interested in what he has to say, and calling him pathetic for not being able to stop an assault is not a sign of hiding some deep seated care, it's being a terrible father and a terribe person, plain and simple. In chap 18, we see a flashback of young Seo An crying with whip marks on his legs and clutching a mark sheet, so likely he'd been abused and punished for not 'being up to par'. We see the same thing in chap 26 with bruises on his legs while hes older, so this is something that was a common occurrence and not a one time incident. He gets slapped in a flashback in chap 33 and called a moron for something that wasnt his fault and without a chance to explain himself. In conclusion, it's not just verbal abuse but physical abuse as well. The author's note said he was deprived of affection as a child which is also abuse, and we know that the first emotion he felt was anxiety, neither of which paint a good picture. The father is so insistent on Seo An coming to work because he wants Seo An to prove his worth as a son and work for his keep, and also because abusive parents think of their children as extensions of themselves they can punish as they see fit. We've seen multiple times that his father cares first and foremost about his company and his reputation. Him hounding Seo An is to make sure that his worthless, useless, disappointment of a son doesn't tarnish the company's image and his reputation.
Thank you for interjection a healthy dose of reality for enablers of abuse by giving excuses to normalize it. It’s the thought that every parent naturally will love their kid that makes enablers do mental gymnastics to justify parental abuse of their children. Seriously, there are dad who physically assault their kids in the way they won’t to their worst enemies. Or mom’s drowning their kids. This myth that all mom and dads love their kids is hogwash. Especially, mom’s maternal instinct BS. How you were brought up in institutionalized family abuse shield by societal hushness and normalcy of said abuse is why even today, this filial BS is still a good reason why parents beat their kids and kids need to respect their elders for it.
Wow van shall tell this story for his uke (sry don't remember his name) he didn't know peter that psycho at all
Honestly is there no police in this shit or smh wth
Nah Ian already knows that who ended peter was van he was there when the fire was up and he misunderstands the situation for thinking van hates grays and kills them that's why he was trembling in fear everytime he sees van around and was so shocked when van knew he was gray not one of the civilians so its better to actually clear the misunderstanding
I have never been in pov of a cheater before I feel like shit and adorable yeewon doesn't deserve this at all. The author smh tries to show that he feels really guilty and shit but it doesn't matter bitch the right thing is out there why not tell him and apologize and talk it out u freak.
Honestly I fking hate him not only does he cheat but also blame the freaking professor like those shity alphas. I used to think at first that the prof has nothing to do with it and he too is a victim in this whole stupid thing but holy shit u are a bitch too I believe that his kid must be a result of such a similar situation and he doesn't even run away or push the bitch that keeps doing him wrong no he seems to totally not care and need a human dildo or smh its freaking pissing off u know he has a bf and still keep him around u not only that but u also advised him not to tell his bf about cheating with u dude he so peace of shit. These bitchs are so perfect together ngl
So honestly I don't even trust that the seme (forgot his name) is going to bring the money I don't understand him at all he has some strong gay panic that gets me to lose trust in him myself lol
For yeon baby bro u strong asf like this already so much for me istg if Mr chang ( that's not the seme name btw but just named him that since he's money and shit UK) if he don't give my yeon so much love I'm gonna throw some fists ୧( ಠ Д ಠ )୨