It's not Dojun's fault but it isn't Chowon's fault either. Chowon can't be a victim while being the aggressor. Arranged marriage happens a lot, they just didn't work out. Trying to throw blame on either one of them is just gonna have you running in circles.
Dojun didn't marry him for that though. There's two sides to each story. What is Chowon a victim of? queennonchalant(¬_¬)
thats the part, chowon loved him so much but dojun could give less of shit towards him, I'm not excusing his behavior but they both suffered. dojun only married chowon because he was pressured into marrying him
thats the part, chowon loved him so much but dojun could give less of shit towards him, I'm not excusing his behavior but they both suffered. dojun only married chowon because he was pressured into marrying him stan bts
I agree that's why I said neither of them have fault.
First, what's a victim to you? Chowon needs treatment, he's badly injured. His terrible actions shows how affected his mind is.. and he knows. But everyone keeps blaming him, and it keeps getting worse. Doesn't dojun had choice? I can understand Chowon's actions but I really can't understand Dojun's.
First, what's a victim to you? Chowon needs treatment, he's badly injured. His terrible actions shows how affected his mind is.. and he knows. But everyone keeps blaming him, and it keeps getting worse.Doesn't ... Jess
Ok I first want you to know I'm not blaming Chowon. A victim to me is someone who had a bad experience bc of a person, object, or place. For example, a victim of abuse or a victim of a bombing. But I think someone no longer can simply be called a victim when they inflict horrid experiences and trauma on others. The victimization becomes a part of the person's story but they are no longer a victim, they become the aggressor/oppressor/abuser with a past of victimization. I understand that Chowon needs help for his mental illness but that does not make him a victim. Is a person with depression automatically a victim? No. What about a person with schizophrenia? Still no. That's why I disagree with your statement "Chowon is a victim!!!" I think his mental illness attributed to his actions but I wouldn't use it to defend him or say he's been victimized. Above all, going by my definition we don't even know if he actually was abused or something like that to call him a victim or not. We simply don't know that much about Chowon. I think you're calling him a victim way too fast and in my opinion, incorrectly.
Then for Dojun, he did have a choice but he also had the pressure of his parents and society weighing down on him. You saw it in his story with Heesoo how they didn't go by the normal standard of Alpha and Omega or Beta and Beta. Sometimes the pressure/influence of others opinions make you choose a choice that benefits others instead of yourself. Not saying I would do that, but that's my understanding of his decision.
First, what's a victim to you? Chowon needs treatment, he's badly injured. His terrible actions shows how affected his mind is.. and he knows. But everyone keeps blaming him, and it keeps getting worse.Doesn't ... Jess
I'm not siding with dojun but i think i have theory in why he did nothing he comes from a family of dominant alphas who seems to have the image of the ideal couple being alpha and omega so i think he did nothing to not disappoint his parents in the marriage thing i think both of them are not really to blame bc it was something their families put pressure in both of them to happen like lots of characters here fucked up but not to the point of committing a crime, but chowon seems to have serious mental issues which shouldn't be a excuse too bc again like i always say in real life that's not how it works but i do not think he should die like some people are saying bc that's dirty (? is it even a expression? english is not my first language) i hope his healing journey will be a success so everyone can have happy ending and piece
I'm not siding with dojun but i think i have theory in why he did nothing he comes from a family of dominant alphas who seems to have the image of the ideal couple being alpha and omegaso i think he did nothing... illuminist
Chowon is a victim!! He's suffering! And it's also dojun fault! Who marries a person without loving them?! That's pure cruelty.
exactly both sides suffer during these types of marriages, its sad
It's not Dojun's fault but it isn't Chowon's fault either. Chowon can't be a victim while being the aggressor. Arranged marriage happens a lot, they just didn't work out. Trying to throw blame on either one of them is just gonna have you running in circles.
Chowon is sick. Yes, he's also a victim.You're forgetting that Chowon married dojun because he really fell in love with him...
Dojun didn't marry him for that though. There's two sides to each story. What is Chowon a victim of?
thats the part, chowon loved him so much but dojun could give less of shit towards him, I'm not excusing his behavior but they both suffered. dojun only married chowon because he was pressured into marrying him
I agree that's why I said neither of them have fault.
First, what's a victim to you?
Chowon needs treatment, he's badly injured. His terrible actions shows how affected his mind is.. and he knows. But everyone keeps blaming him, and it keeps getting worse.
Doesn't dojun had choice? I can understand Chowon's actions but I really can't understand Dojun's.
Ok I first want you to know I'm not blaming Chowon. A victim to me is someone who had a bad experience bc of a person, object, or place. For example, a victim of abuse or a victim of a bombing. But I think someone no longer can simply be called a victim when they inflict horrid experiences and trauma on others. The victimization becomes a part of the person's story but they are no longer a victim, they become the aggressor/oppressor/abuser with a past of victimization. I understand that Chowon needs help for his mental illness but that does not make him a victim. Is a person with depression automatically a victim? No. What about a person with schizophrenia? Still no. That's why I disagree with your statement "Chowon is a victim!!!" I think his mental illness attributed to his actions but I wouldn't use it to defend him or say he's been victimized. Above all, going by my definition we don't even know if he actually was abused or something like that to call him a victim or not. We simply don't know that much about Chowon. I think you're calling him a victim way too fast and in my opinion, incorrectly.
Then for Dojun, he did have a choice but he also had the pressure of his parents and society weighing down on him. You saw it in his story with Heesoo how they didn't go by the normal standard of Alpha and Omega or Beta and Beta. Sometimes the pressure/influence of others opinions make you choose a choice that benefits others instead of yourself. Not saying I would do that, but that's my understanding of his decision.
I'm not siding with dojun but i think i have theory in why he did nothing
he comes from a family of dominant alphas who seems to have the image of the ideal couple being alpha and omega
so i think he did nothing to not disappoint his parents
in the marriage thing i think both of them are not really to blame bc it was something their families put pressure in both of them to happen
like lots of characters here fucked up but not to the point of committing a crime, but chowon seems to have serious mental issues which shouldn't be a excuse too bc again like i always say in real life that's not how it works
but i do not think he should die like some people are saying bc that's dirty (? is it even a expression? english is not my first language) i hope his healing journey will be a success so everyone can have happy ending and piece
^this is it