So this how you treat the man who gave you your gay awakening like ┗( T﹏T )┛
I’m not her for arguments just conversations and questions! If you have a question feel free to ask I will try my best to help. I am a victim of SA so I have strong opinions on “dark romance” here is an amazing article if there is confusion
https://talynnkel.com/blog/2016/1/20/rape-disguised-as-romance-why-i-stop-reading-most-romance-novels
When I’m wrong I can admit that I’m wrong but I do need solid information for that so as to not just believe anything
♡dead inside ♡
♡HATES rape tropes abuse tropes!!♡
♡crazy for high quality goods♡
♡very picky♡
♡but laughs easily♡
♡always hunting for the highest goods♡
♡hate people who love rape or SA bl♡
♡I love everyone who is kind my little pookie bears♡
Addicted to the good stuff
P.s I am mentally goofy so if it sound like I’m mean I’m not trying to be I sometimes have a hard time discerning whether I’m being fair, kind or that good stuff
Remember that if you are saying it’s okay because it’s fiction you are forgetting that the wrongful presentation of sexual violence contributes to rape culture. It isn't about differentiating fiction and reality, everybody knows it isn’t real, its about cause and effect. Sexualizing, downplaying, romanticizing rape along with trivializing sexual violence in any manner contributes to rape culture because MEDIA including fictional media, is the biggest contributor to rape culture. If not, one of the biggest. There is no safe space for ANYBODY who wants to misrepresent sexual violence or SA victims. There should never be one, and authors who do that should be held accountable. Think about it we shouldn't want misrepresentation and sexualization of rape, it is HARMFUL content. Thank you for reading. I don’t want to argue, I just think it’s important to understand what’s okay and what isn’t even if it involves sadism here is a link to what BDSM actually means and what these people stand for:
https://www.harpersbazaar.in/amp/culture/story/essential-rules-to-explore-bdsm-responsibly-572918-2023-06-08
https://www.everydayhealth.com/healthy-sex/bdsm/
I think it’s important to note that people may not know what rape is of might not understand it or might not understand that what they are saying is hurtful and wrong her is an amazing article that goes over these things
https://talynnkel.com/blog/2016/1/20/rape-disguised-as-romance-why-i-stop-reading-most-romance-novels
I genuinely want to know why people victim blame and also excuse rape and abuse because it’s fictional and not in real life like I want to know what the thought processes behind that is?
Here are my thoughts
Rape isn’t excusable wether it be in writing (in books movies) or in real life I can see where people may want to separate stuff like how they say separate the art from the artist but if someone is romanticizing rape in literature and or in movies it has been shown to have real negative affects on society and how they talk about rape and sexual assault this also goes with abuse and abuse victims. As someone who was abused and sexually assaulted it hurts so bad in my heart when people victim blame or try to make the excuse that it’s not in the real world.
I just want to say as far as gay sex choking is so mf vanilla one of the most plain and basic kinks not saying it isn’t sexy or cool it’s just not freak bitch
I HATE WHEN BEAUTIFUL ART AND LOVELY WOMEN ARE WASTED ON SADISTIC PIECE OF SHIT MLS LIKE WHY DO MEN RUIN EVERYTHING (╬￣皿￣)凸
Yall are truly giving victim blaming and shaming mentality with a sprinkle of abuser apologists
Istg if I just got done fucking someone and we’re cuddling in bed and they cut off our conversation to sleep and then call out someone else names id be wide awake not nightquill not the sand man himself self would be able to make me sleep after hearing that in fact it would take gods will and all of the kings horses and men BECAUSE WHO TF IS DERRICK
Honestly this is literally torture porn it’s continuous rape until chapter 29 and then when any semblance of romance or consensual intimacy occurs It happens for four chapters and by 35 then takes an absolutely horrific turn Shit is abhorrent this just 45 chapters of abuse and manipulation this isn’t just dark themes it’s absolutely twisted very much victim, shaming, blaming, and abuser apologist using abuse/victimhood as a romance material and plot device
I have severe ocd I’m a Completionist at my core and this was so hard to get through 45 chapters and no light or hope shit scrambled my brain
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Hello, lil human
Welcome to my page.
About me:
I like melancholic and/or badass characters who
treat people right. I have a soft spot for the twisted and/or two-faced (preferably the author understands and treats right).
Cowards or idiots to the point their partner hurt are painful to watch...
regarding shōjo: strong women. No always blushing, goo-goo eyed girls. Characters with character.
Expressions >> Meaning backstory, selflessness and there's only one partner/person for them.
the amount of nice second male lead writing and bad second female lead writing is borderline misogyny, please be normal
and give me honest and quiet friendships between the characters
and don't be shy to befriend the antagonist's children instead of your ' parents ' who abuse children, thank you .
manga/manhwa etc is art and the writing/dialogue combined ..... and both apparently reflect the author's IQ and EQ, anyways .
My fav anime
is Code Geass and my fav character of all time is Lelouch Vi Britannia .
I also like Mikoto and Anna from K project (my profile picture)
characters who surprise you with their actions > >
Current fav kdrama
Call me mother and Just between lovers.
So yes, I love sad, well written pain .
I play PGR, Tower of Fantasy, Aether Gazer, Blue Lock Project: World Cup and Tera.
Regarding music, I used to listen to kpop like BIGBANG & Block B ~
Specifically G-dragon (GTOP)
I also like Mino, Fanxy child, NCT, iKON and Gaho .
interested in khiphop such as nafla.
Other than that of course like all of us, Nightcore .
some Hozier, lil peep, and John Vincent Iii .
Marvel and DC are bs but Loki Laufeyson and Damian Wayne have potential (him and Raven in the movies<3, kinda like Zuko and Mai)
also Sherlock BBC was 100% better because of Moriarty >>
Please check out my lists and feel free to send me a message.
I love talking to other otaku/whatever.•°
Have a good day/night. Don't forget to stop and look at the sky .
