VERYPERI101's Topics (95)

Yes it's wrong why would their sexual roles matter? This is still pedophilia...

yes very wrong. this calls for a self reflection.

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Honestly I feel like that's how all the bl story gets away with it, cuz it's not the older one doing the clapping but the younger one, while the older was the one getting the back shot. Like U can never see the younger ones being bad cuz they're young when there's a lot of creepy young people who'd use their age and "innocence" to do creepy and bad stuff to older people, but when U turn that around all hell break loose cuz older ones are deemed pedo, which is true, but yea just something I kind of notice and just in the back of my mind. And honestly same, and I feel like it either been put in our heads that kind of concept to the point that if a younger kid did something like that to an adult we don't feel anything bad or something cuz they're young and "knows nothing", but that can never be said if it's reverse ╮(￣▽￣)╭, just my 2 cents

hope you can overcome that impression because by that logic, female pedos shouldn’t be taken as seriously since they’re not usually the ones doing the “clapping.”
the adult is still “doing something” to the kid even if they’re not the one doing the active pursing or taking the bottom role.

Never said female pedos shouldn't be taken seriously, I never specify a gender, I just said younger ones and older ones. Also it's kinda hard to explain my thoughts since English is my second language so I ask chatgpt for help lolso this is what I it says that closely what I wanna say..?


Sooo I asked chatgpt to further explain what I just commented and this is what it says:

This comment is expressing a critical observation about a common trope in **Boys’ Love (BL) stories**, specifically those involving relationships with an age gap. Here's a breakdown of the key points the commenter is making:

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### **Main Idea:**

The commenter believes **BL stories often avoid criticism for problematic age dynamics** because of how they portray the characters and the roles they take in intimate scenes.

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### **Specific Observations:**

1. **Role Reversal in Age-Gap Relationships:**

* The commenter notes that in many BL stories, it's **the younger character who initiates or is dominant** ("doing the clapping" = initiating sex), while the **older character is portrayed as passive** ("getting the back shot").
* This inversion of expected roles (older = dominant, younger = submissive) makes the story appear less problematic on the surface.

2. **Perception of Innocence:**

* **Younger characters are often seen as innocent** and not responsible for inappropriate behavior, even if they're the ones acting out.
* This, the commenter argues, is **a biased double standard**, since **"creepy young people"** can also exploit their perceived innocence to do inappropriate things to older people.

3. **Double Standards in Reactions:**

* When **a younger person makes advances toward an adult**, society tends to **downplay it** or excuse it because of the assumption that "they don’t know better."
* But if **an adult does the same toward a younger person**, it’s immediately condemned as pedophilic—which, the commenter agrees, **is valid**, but they’re pointing out the imbalance in how each side is judged.

4. **Cultural Conditioning:**

* The commenter suspects that we've been socially conditioned to accept these tropes in media to the point where **we no longer question the actions of the younger characters**, even when they're the aggressors.

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### **Tone and Intent:**

* The commenter isn’t **defending pedophilia**, but rather **criticizing the lack of accountability** for problematic behavior when it comes from younger characters in fiction.
* They seem frustrated by the **hypocrisy** in how people react differently depending on **who is perceived to have power** (age vs. role in the relationship).
* “Just my 2 cents” signals they know it’s a hot take, but they felt compelled to share their observation.

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**In Summary:**

The comment argues that **BL media sometimes escapes criticism for age-gap dynamics** because the **younger characters are portrayed as dominant or initiating**, and society gives them a pass due to their age and supposed innocence—**a double standard** that wouldn't apply if the roles were reversed.


.... Anyway, not really looking to start a war of any kind so, adios I guess..ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

"I asked chat gpt" well I asked the moon and the stars and they all think you're an idiot with zero reading comprehension

wth i was reading ur comments and agreeing w u (i think most people would), but using chatgpt to explain YOUR thoughts for you is insane, please never do that again do your own thinking and writing and people will be much more willing to listen to your thoughts bro

oops sorry i just realised u used chatgpt bc english is your 2nd language, i can understand why you used it now, i'm so sorry!! i do encourage u to refrain from using it anyway though i think everyone in this discussion (besides the OP) shares a similar opinion to u, and the person who replied to you may have just misunderstood, perhaps because of phrasing.

(i'm so sorry to everyone for the 3rd notif) just realised i'm pretty sure both you and i completely misunderstood what the original comments were about. i got confused when i read ur comment and forgot what the discussion was actually about

u thought the discussion was about the false idea that the younger one can't be an aggressor, but the discussion is about the false idea that the uke can't be the aggressor. that's why the person replying to you was talking about female pedos. still agree with you, but your comments just weren't very relevant to the topic, that's why.

(my 4am brain is barely functioning i am SO sorry idek what i just blabbered on abt lmao)

Bro looks evil character from mafia or something lol