THIS!!!! This is sth I've been talkkng about with my friends. HONESTLY, BEING ASERTIVE IN WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU CAN DO. Now, its Sanho turn to decide what to do and if he is ok with this. In my point of view, I wont accept it, because the other part has in mind to be separeted from me (Sanho) before being together, I'm not willing wasting my time,my efforts my emotions in sth like that. I'd rather to look for sth more like what I aim. ' I 'll let you go when you find someone who can love you the way you want'. Aaaamm. Even if I love this person, this statement wil make me feel anxious and probably frustrated. Somehow, I' m not good enough. Yes, it's my insecurities, my problem that's why I never accept this. But if Sanho o whoever are ok wth this, it's great, since the other part is honest