Ok, it depends on how define boyfriend and what you expect from a relationship.
Like, I thought that I was in relationships before your age, but I wouldn't call them that way any more, because I liked those guys way more than they liked me, because we never had a level of trust where I could be sure that something I said or did would stay between u...... reply
I agree with what's said here about gaining and not losing.
If it helps anyone, I can only tell my story (of a straight female) :
I decided to put an end to this eternal question when I was 19. I had had some crushes before, but it never was a full grown relationship based on enough mutual trust and respect, that I'd be sure he wouldn't tell it ar...... reply