As a 25 years old man, I would not allow a 12 years old one to read one. May be go for 'shouen ai' but not definitely yaoi. It's too much for kids. Bad influence I would say. There are so many sensitive topics that authors normalize for the plot and popularity that even gay men find disgusting. And from my experience, young fujoshis are the most ......
There are gay people who are exclusively top or bottom, there isnt anything wrong with that. Lets be real though, BL is Heteronormative thats primarily why there is this sort of consensus that the person who bottoms is always feminine and the person who tops is always masculine. A lot of these authors are fetishists that dont see gay relationships ......
As a fujoshi, we don't claim her. That bitch can't separate reality from fiction. I'm so sorry that happened to you, it's not okay.
ANYONE WANNA GET MARRIED