I'm a guy. I've topped and recently bottomed.
As a top, if you have a soul, it's absolutely heartbreaking to see you've hurt your bottom boy.
They do so much to prepare and clean, the least we can do is not make them bleed.
And from my recent experience of bottoming, just fingering can make you blood.
And it HURTS. Not a good pain, but a bad pain.
I hope these tops like Risky and Jaekyung get their karma.