Bloom August 27, 2019 11:00 am

I am a college student in my final year but the thing is I suffer from anxiety attacks from time to time. I always get so concious of myself when I am alone. It's fine when I am with someone but it feels like lots of eyes on me but in reality it's not like that. I feel like an empty vessel. Like I can't do anything right and just a useless trash. What should I do I am very embarrassed too as seeing others brining with confidence and then theirs me struggling for a very basic thing that comes natural to most of people.

Bloom August 1, 2019 10:08 am

How do u avoid unnecessary eye contact in public?

    LiXii August 1, 2019 10:10 am

    Close your eyes or something (=・ω・=)

    Rei August 1, 2019 10:15 am

    I always look below or the cars or other things but not with a person. Thats why i hate buying things because i need to talk face to face with the cashier but yeah thats unavoidable. So its better if you learn how to not panic even if you made eye contact with someone. Thats normal

    bloomie August 1, 2019 11:26 am

    SUNGLASSES!! Also, they will protect your eyes from cataracts in the future. Double bonus! I find that strangers are less likely to speak to me if I am wearing them, too.

    Dysfunctional August 1, 2019 12:14 pm

    Just don’t look at people. Simple.

    wisteria August 1, 2019 1:10 pm

    Just look on the ground or buildings or just focus on your phone. Or if you can’t avoid looking at people then look at the bridge of their nose (if you are talking to them)

Bloom July 28, 2019 7:47 am

Are most of the Asian parents suck at understanding their children emotions? Saying this from my personal experience. Can anyone relates?

    Noree July 28, 2019 7:53 am

    My parents also suffered from sucky parents and decided to just pass their bad parenting to me.
    They justify beating me with a broom-stick/sandal by saying they came out fine when my grandparents would punish them but I can say for sure that I am not fine after getting relentlessly yelled and beaten at and I honest to god hope that if I ever have children I wont repeat the same mistakes my parents did. ( ̄w ̄|||)

    exoexoexo4life July 28, 2019 8:27 am
    My parents also suffered from sucky parents and decided to just pass their bad parenting to me. They justify beating me with a broom-stick/sandal by saying they came out fine when my grandparents would punish t... Noree

    Loll my parents justify their beatings by saying it’s the Asian way of disciplining. Ah yes I got beat so bad I got bruises

    Lazy Potato July 28, 2019 8:30 am

    Probably? Cause my guardian dont talk much with me but talks a lot to her daughters. It feels like Im being rejected. We live at the same house thou but I dont feel at home at all. (=・ω・=).
    From what I notice she have favoritism. Her daughters share to me that they dont feel appreciated. Its like they are just there to provide financial stability. She doesnt understand that anxiety and depression are real and when you tell her your problems its gonna be "your fault because you dont have enough faith"
    Maybe because of generation gap or culture. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
    Shes not a bad person thou she doesn't treat me cruelly.

    Mocha July 28, 2019 8:35 am

    My mom isn't like that......tho she would spank me a few times back when I was a child, if I did something bad.....but we're often just goofing around.....
    I think its cause people have different perspectives and beliefs...that's why they do the things they do.........

    Bloom July 28, 2019 8:51 am
    My mom isn't like that......tho she would spank me a few times back when I was a child, if I did something bad.....but we're often just goofing around.....I think its cause people have different perspectives an... Mocha

    That's exactly the point with me. My parents have really different perspective than mine and I understand that completely. But they don't even try to understand what I am going through or it seems like they don't want to. But I still love them well u know there is no replacement for them. But still it hurts so bad I am literally mentally exhausted. But one thing for sure I won't let my children suffer like that. I am taking it as a great life experience.

    Mocha July 28, 2019 9:00 am
    That's exactly the point with me. My parents have really different perspective than mine and I understand that completely. But they don't even try to understand what I am going through or it seems like they don... Bloom

    Yep yep
    But try to talk to them sometimes...and open up a bit...maybe they will come to understand

    im blessed every update July 28, 2019 10:02 am

    my sister used to do self harm and when my mom found out the first thing she tried to make my sis feel bad for it and told her that it would ruin her reputation if other people saw

    Powhammer July 28, 2019 11:01 am

    asian parents have high expectations of their kids which can fuck you up if you don't reach /their/ standards. They care more about how their reputation looks rather than how their kids are feeling mentally/physically. The whole "mental illness is a phase" is really REALLY harmful and damaging as it makes you ashamed and less likely to talk about your issues.

    Bloom July 28, 2019 11:17 am
    Yep yepBut try to talk to them sometimes...and open up a bit...maybe they will come to understand Mocha

    I tried and I always end up in tears in the process and they still don't understand so what should I do?

    Bloom July 28, 2019 11:22 am
    I tried and I always end up in tears in the process and they still don't understand so what should I do? Bloom

    They say I am just creating scene for no reason and get angrier instead which makes me more vulnerable. It's affecting my studies as well and there is no one around me which I can talk to that's why I decided to post this. Now I became very sensitive to other people emotions which makes it more worse in one way.

    im blessed every update July 28, 2019 12:19 pm
    They say I am just creating scene for no reason and get angrier instead which makes me more vulnerable. It's affecting my studies as well and there is no one around me which I can talk to that's why I decided t... Bloom

    honestly when they hit me with "you're such an ungrateful child" when i had a grade lower than 80 when i was really pressured cause i was part of the sections where its just full of honor students (first time this happened too) i was just sad like really sad since they didnt even try to encourage me and just talk shit about my efforts i actually cried for 2 days since they called me a lot of slurs so i had a sudden realization to just not take to heart their hurtful words so that made me feel better and i stopped listening to their bs and unrealistic expectations of me so i did better because honestly its just better to do what youre able to do now and improve it as you go instead of forcing yourself to do something that's out of your reach with your current abilities

    Bloom July 28, 2019 12:26 pm
    honestly when they hit me with "you're such an ungrateful child" when i had a grade lower than 80 when i was really pressured cause i was part of the sections where its just full of honor students (first time t... im blessed every update

    Well I think I have to wait more. Thanks to all people who replied and shared their stories I think I am not alone. I will try my bestest to.become an independent and strong woman. Though it sucks being a girl but I like it this way.

Bloom July 21, 2019 4:42 pm

I want a manga with female lead whose personality is same as usui takumi .

Bloom July 14, 2019 10:42 am

Where bullied people fights back and become stronger than anyone.

Bloom February 10, 2019 5:35 pm

What's with all this fuss about shutting down? Is that really true ? Please tell me I'm tearing up , my heart feels heavy I love this site and my precious mangas so much. There is no site like this and I think will never have in future as well. Please somebody do something I'm gonna cry for real.

Bloom January 1, 2019 10:43 am

I need more mangas like The Promised Neverland.
Thanks in advance.

Bloom December 27, 2018 6:50 am

Can anyone suggest a manga with badass, emotionless female lead with romance as one of genre even if it's minor.And trust me I have already read most of mangas with strong female leads so if there are any left please reply here.
Thanks in advance.

Bloom December 14, 2018 7:51 am

What age groups people are active at mangago ?

    MothXLamps December 14, 2018 7:54 am

    8-32 years old?

    lolpop8999 December 14, 2018 9:44 am
    8-32 years old? MothXLamps

    Sounds about right...

    Fujoshi_Lick December 14, 2018 12:19 pm
    Sounds about right... lolpop8999

    really??
    I was thinking about 10-45

    Chunta December 14, 2018 12:31 pm
    really??I was thinking about 10-45 Fujoshi_Lick

    Fucking 10?

    Fujoshi_Lick December 14, 2018 12:48 pm
    Fucking 10? Chunta

    hey, lolpop8999 said there were 8 years old.
    from time to time you will see people say that they are 10 or 45 and stuff.
    ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Shinku_o December 14, 2018 1:06 pm

    More like 13-13

    Usako December 14, 2018 2:27 pm
    8-32 years old? MothXLamps

    32 is too young. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I bet there are people in their 70's that can still read!

    Bloom December 14, 2018 4:39 pm
    32 is too young. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I bet there are people in their 70's that can still read! Usako

    It feels good after knowing that such wide range of age groups ( as per all replies 8 to 50+) are interested in reading mangas

    Shinku_o December 14, 2018 11:48 pm
    It feels good after knowing that such wide range of age groups ( as per all replies 8 to 50+) are interested in reading mangas Bloom

    I don't think you got the joke..

    Bloom December 15, 2018 9:56 am
    I don't think you got the joke.. Shinku_o

    Hmmm is that a joke

    MothXLamps December 15, 2018 11:00 am
    Hmmm is that a joke Bloom

    I don't think so

    Bloom December 15, 2018 11:16 am
    I don't think so MothXLamps

    so it's true then? Ah I just want to know.

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