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Preach! I'm so over Minsuk and his pushover self for the ex!

Shoulda coulda woulda. Ok.. lol boy bye

I feel the same way .I hope he develops real feelings for Bexan in the future

Right right!! (Strongly nods)
I don't think Minsuk loves any of them. Like you said he wants validation.
But Minsuk dear, if it's possible don't do this with using Bexan's love. Go find some fans of your works.

Yeah, totally. Now I'm disappointed on this manhwa too. Ugh so tired ┗( T﹏T )┛

I feel you missed the point. It's not that he cared about his career, Minsuk realized that Yongjae never cared--even from the beginning. It's sort of a wake-up call. I wouldn't call him selfish...more naive than anything. Validation is important in a relationship. Yongjae brushes off anything that Minsuk does...nothing is serious because Yongjae is all about himself and his wants. If you're in a relationship, you want the other person to understand your wants, feelings and desires and accept them--pure definition of being validated. Bexan always made Minsuk feel important and always knew how he felt--even though he only known him for one month. Yongjae has known him for 10 years and is self-centered and knows nothing about Minsuk's desires and feelings. Minsuk finally realized it (and he really feels like a jackass after this). Wait until you read chapter 28 and you'll understand.

The only comment here that makes sense. Some people equate wanting to be validated=selfish. Probably didn't read the black narrative boxes. I want to see you all in a relationship/marriage without validation and let me know if it works............because it won't. Validation=acceptance and understanding. Wouldn't you want the person you love to understand you? So what if he runs back to Bexan? Better late than never.

lol although all that is true , I think you may have missed the point that is being made! The point is that some of us as readers, do not see Minsuk having the same affection that Bexan has for him !Bexan comes off as a second choice to us because he gives Young jae the time of day. No one said anything about not needing validation in a relationship ! That is something that you guys came up with on your own .

The original poster said that Minsuk left becuase he wants validation not because he loves Bexan. I didn't come up with anything on my own sweetheart. That's not being selfish, it's being realistic. Sure, I think it is obvious that Minsuk likes Bexan a lot but he's being realistic because he think he's leaving. He only knew Bexan for 1 month, and he knew Yongjae for 10 years. Most people would try to work it out. I dont think he realizes how much he likes Bexan. Y'all calling him selfish and he isn't. If he was selfish, he wouldn't have let a werewolf live with him. I stated my opinion on what they stated and that's that.

lol again sweetheart he would have gone back to Minsuk had he given him the validation he wanted and would have left the healthy relationship he was having with Bexan.Of course receiving validation from your partner is important!but it is selfish to go back to Bexan right after he decides it can't work

Really? You readers are something else.
That would really make for a boring story if he decided to pick Bexan first. You know right? Think about it, Bexan is a werewolf tnat changes due to the sun so half the day he's a wolf. He only knew him for a month, and he wants to go to Siberia.
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An ex, that "seems" like he wants to work it out, most likely his first love and serious relationship and you've known him for 10 years. Yes, it's realistic to chose his ex. So, it's selfish for him to finally realize his feelings and tell his ex to f*ck off and try to make it work with Bexan. He's selfish because he didn't pick him first...like seriously. People make bad decisions and choices, it doesnt make them selfish. I hope you all never have to make decision similar to Minsuk on choosing someone.

Yeah I understand that my point was that he never should have entertained the idea from the start. He never thought about the wolf when finding out his true feelings. Let’s say that the ex somehow changed, would he had just got back with him? So as it is now he should feel like a fool a selfish fool.

Yeah like he said an after thought.

I do too but I fear bexan will just get hurt waiting. I hope bexan wolfs up and tell him what suki boy ain’t gonna do.

Lmao thirsty chan....really?(≧∀≦)(≧∀≦)(≧∀≦)

That’s right thirsty chan, his ole messy self

Let me break it down for you. If Sangwoo allows Bum to escape, there's a rather large chance for him to either go to the police and confess, or stay crying outside his door attracting police attention. Bum could slip and scream about how he doesn't care how Sangwoo is a murderer. Bum has nowhere to go. His conflicted mental status is telling him he loves Sangwoo, but is afraid of upsetting him. I believe that abuse from Sangwoo isn't as traumatic as his uncle's. If we're being honest here, Bum did break into Sangwoo's place and therefore, could have be murdered for being an intruder. Bum doesn't like the police, so let's say that Bum did run away, it wouldn't be for long due to the fact the police around there trust Sangwoo implicitly. Thereby meaning he could say they broke up and Bum tried to break into his house for revenge, so he attacked in self defense. Let's also not forget that Sangwoo is a quick thinker and marvelous actor. LOL

This I agree with you Especially on bums mental state, sangwoo has broken him to the point that he’s become completely reliant on him. However I’m more focused on why sangwoo favors him?hes killed every other person except bum. So I’m trying to figure out if sangwoo has become reliant on bum, it’s as if bum is a sponge or a mental cap for him. Remember when bum slit his wrist I was so captivated by sangwoo s response, so who is bum to him?

I think in his own twisted way, he sees Bum as the same. He's been abused too, so he knows what it's like. However, it could be that Bum's confessions are slowly seeping into his mind and he wants to embrace the feelings, but he can't due to his own mental issues.

I agree I think that emotion scares him because what has he been doing besides running from his past, and murdering. If he could be loved was it all for nothing. But again he has this mental disorder that kinda blocks that idea from even sticking.

Sangwoo kinda somehow sees his own mother in Bum so that might be stopping him from killing Bum as he does not want to be like his father,

So does that mean that his father killed his mother who was week and sangwoo killed his father. So could it be that this trauma has him living out that same day over and over again? They are on a strict schedule, with the same song playing and over again. I see he wants to not become his father but in a way he is like his father, only bum is his mother wouldn’t that make him protective? And the last chapter when he raped bum what does that mean?

Well it is implied that he almost or did drown his mother in the earlier chapters afterbum tried to commit suicide

Oh your right the bathtub scene. He’s got the cop off his back but I think the cop will dig deeper on his own and poor bum will end up dead or killing sangwoo

IMO, yeah it reminds him of his mother so his feelings were tinged with mother complex at the start but in his own fucked up way he has feelings for bum but somehow he doesn't want to acknowledge those feelings and he feels weird when bum says he loves him. So now, he's in the same state as his parents. Bum as his mother and he as his father and he wanted to do it differently, is what I think.