Im sorry but both need therapy. Izumi was too forgiving, this situation isn't something to downplay, he had his own trauma from the past that needs to be checked ( ̄へ ̄)shion got abandonment, trust, possessive, and stalking issues that is worth therapy time. Knowing them, they'll just figure it out themselves without professional help, even if it isn't the ideal method to solve the issue.
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