Guys because of all these isekais I've been reading I now am not afraid of death it scares me how not scared I am since I wanna be reincarnated with my memories and shiii I'm Christian so I've even been praying about it y'all I just wanna jump into the world of a novel lol I've even been thinking of scenarios for the day I face god Imma be on my knees praying for him to transport me to another world please and thank youssss lol
Is all yaoi Bad and why cuz I was on tiktok and a girl said it's all bad because it's all fetishization but I don't really get it. Detailed explanations only
I think yaoi is considered bad because it fetishizes gay relationships by displaying only very graphic and detailed sex which y'know, isn't the main point of a romantic relationship. But there are a lot of very good gay manga or manhwa that doesn't do that, displaying healthy relationships and good character development. They're called BLs. I think that is why people consider yaoi problematic, and BLs as good. Some people say yaoi and bl is the same thing tho, so idk.
It is obviously not the best representation for gay men, but man am i tired of people saying that i fetishize gay men just cause i read BL. To me people who fetishize gay men are people who do not support real lgbt members and still read BL cause it's 'hot' and 'special' or sumthing. The peeps who go "UwU OwO gay men~"...? Ya know what i mean? Now is all yaoi bad? It depends on how you see the work as honestly. Yaoi is just a work of fiction with fictional characters. Reality is real humans with emotions, who do not live for a persons approval. Hope this clears some of the doubt. If ya still have questions you can ask! :)
Porn in general is fetishizing things, and like 99% of it is fake. it'd actually be kinda weird if yaoi wasn't fetishizing gay relationships. Yaoi fetishizes mlm, yuri fetishizes wlw, hentai fetishizes women, along with irl porn. As long as we understand that it's not real and that everything is heavily exaggerated AND NOT SEE IRL GAY MEN AS UWU GAYBIES, then it's fine. It doesn't mean you're a bad person or anything.
I think that what matters is that we understand that yaoi does not reflect irl gay relationships. The things we see in yaoi, especially the saucy ones, are greatly exaggerated for the reader's entertainment. It's usually the readers who think that yaoi is a reflection of irl gay relationships who ruin the fun for the rest of us.
I don't like imagining gay sex like I support LGBTQ and think love is love but like I don't like imagining the real thing with real 3D humans like I don't hate it but I find it boring but I'm kinda like that with real straight sex it just bores me but I don't think I find it gross so idk am I homophobic as a straight cis gender female???
Recently me and my friends had a movie night and watched before sunrise and the question is love selfish popped up I've had no real experience so I turned to all I know manga BL specifically making me come to the conclusion Love can be selfish but my friend counterargued and said that it isn't love that's selfish but just the person in general is meaning love is selfless right idk why but I disagree I wanted to know everyone else's opinion on this??
I only remember a bit of the background but I’m pretty sure it was some type of reality tv cooking competition where the 2 Male leads formed a contract to basically queer bait the audience
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/off_the_plate/ i have no idea if its this one but it sounds kinda alike
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_king_of_home_cooking/
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This ain’t ur but adding to my list to read after rereading what I was looking for so thank uuuu