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lolita June 3, 2021 9:28 pm

Am I the only one who actually wants to see them happy together...? I get most people hate fu sheng from what he did to He yang and her couple.. But idk I feel like they could be so happy!!! You can see that he cares for her and always regrets hurting He Yang ( after hurting her but he still regrets and feels guilty when he sees her sad and in pain) I feel like he just has issues expressing his feelings...
( Fu sheng kinda gives me a Demon vibe from vampire diaries and a Seungho vibe from the painter of the night... I just can't help but love him ╥﹏╥)
PS: just to make things clear I never said I was okay with all he did to her, I'm NOT!!! But when I see them tgt they seem so happy and cute that my mind erases all the f*cked up things he did .. Until he does it again and I want to throw tiny rocks at him. But part of my heart still wishes them happiness so bad

    Tigress June 3, 2021 8:58 pm

    he literally raped her... and assaulted her... and cut off her man's finger... and kidnapped her... and now he locked her up in his house... twisted perception of love you got there. he literally cannot redeem himself at this point no matter what he does

    Lolipopcoca June 3, 2021 8:59 pm

    They could have be if they didn't have this past. He is a rapist, he destroyed her. How can you say that after seeing her like that? Issues? Issues expressing love??? Do you even know what rape is??? DO YOU KNOW??? If they had meet before, i'm sure their couple could have be happy. But at the moment he tried to kill her, it's was to late. So wake up, and don't say things like that again.
    And you love him only because he is good looking. If it was a small men, with rat eyes, yellow teeth, red pimples and a big nose, all ugly, you would hate him.

    lolita June 3, 2021 9:13 pm
    They could have be if they didn't have this past. He is a rapist, he destroyed her. How can you say that after seeing her like that? Issues? Issues expressing love??? Do you even know what rape is??? DO YOU KNO... Lolipopcoca

    Don't be aggressive plz it's just a feeling I've been having for a while about their relationship and I wanted to know whether I was alone!! I don't know why I think that so don't be so aggressive plz. OF I know what rape is and it is fucking awful don't you think I don't care about rape I do!!
    But as you said it's just that sometimes when I see that together In just can't help but forget about all he did to her until he does it again..
    I completely agree that it's too late bc of what he did but I can't help but hope for a miracle idk they could be/have been such a great couple if fu sheng wasn't soo fk stupid!
    The face does have a role in me liking he but it's just the fact that he feels guilty and regrets most of it that gets me I can't help it.

    Lolipopcoca June 3, 2021 9:19 pm
    Don't be aggressive plz it's just a feeling I've been having for a while about their relationship and I wanted to know whether I was alone!! I don't know why I think that so don't be so aggressive plz. OF I kno... lolita

    Guilt is not an excuse. And the fact that you are saying yourself that you can't help but forget until he does it again, when he do it in almost every chapter, just shows that you don't understand what rape is for the victims. He is not stupid, he is a psycho. And yes you can help it. Go watch survivors interview, it will help you to stop having those kind of fetishes. And miracle don't happen. Rape is the worst thing you can do to someone. So yes. Wake up, and don't try to find excuse for him or for you.

    Panda June 3, 2021 10:17 pm

    Yep. I feel you. I low-key want the same lol

    Lalaroom5 June 3, 2021 10:46 pm

    Yess same

    I’m Always Watching You June 4, 2021 12:21 am

    YES... YES YOU ARE LITERALLY THE ONLY ONE! (︶︿︶)

    MeloNelo3 June 4, 2021 12:37 am

    Girl/boy/non-binary person, the fuck are you saying? Put down the kool-aide and get a therapist cos that shit ain’t normal! The creator made this angelic villain type to provoke some cognitive dissonance/ Stockholm syndrome type shit for tension but nooooooooooooo just no on the glazing over his blatant abuse and psychopathy. I pray you don’t have this mindset in the real world—that shit will get you in serious trouble.

    MeloNelo3 June 4, 2021 12:38 am
    Girl/boy/non-binary person, the fuck are you saying? Put down the kool-aide and get a therapist cos that shit ain’t normal! The creator made this angelic villain type to provoke some cognitive dissonance/ Sto... MeloNelo3

    Also I meant to dislike and I accidentally liked—so minus one of those thumbs up cos it’s me just fucking up on accident

    Hisokasjuicytoes June 4, 2021 5:53 am

    I like broken men too :)

    Vanth June 4, 2021 9:08 am
    Guilt is not an excuse. And the fact that you are saying yourself that you can't help but forget until he does it again, when he do it in almost every chapter, just shows that you don't understand what rape is ... Lolipopcoca

    Wow such a judgmental comment accusing her that she have a fetish for rape, Even tho she already stated many times that she’s not okay with the things he done but yet here you r jumping into your disgusting conclusions.

    Kageyama simp June 4, 2021 2:39 pm

    Omaigod we are the same,but ofcos i really hate what he did for her but i hope there will be a miracle fufu(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

    Hisokasjuicytoes June 4, 2021 3:38 pm
    Wow such a judgmental comment accusing her that she have a fetish for rape, Even tho she already stated many times that she’s not okay with the things he done but yet here you r jumping into your disgusting c... Vanth

    Fr I’ve seen all the comments and she really intended to make the other person feel bad for liking him like bitch...

    mika June 4, 2021 5:48 pm
    Wow such a judgmental comment accusing her that she have a fetish for rape, Even tho she already stated many times that she’s not okay with the things he done but yet here you r jumping into your disgusting c... Vanth

    if she’s really not okay with the things he has done, why does she want him to end up with the MC? if you’re truly bothered by the things he has done, you wouldn’t be able to romanticise this shit, just because he comforted her one or two times does not mean the trauma she has will dissipate.

    Frei89 June 4, 2021 5:54 pm

    Yeah, same here! and the people comenting on your post should calm the f*ck down because it is f*cking fiction. I hope you don't feel bad because of them. Dear haters, mind your own business if you don't agree with her .l.

    MeloNelo3 June 4, 2021 6:23 pm
    Yeah, same here! and the people comenting on your post should calm the f*ck down because it is f*cking fiction. I hope you don't feel bad because of them. Dear haters, mind your own business if you don't agree ... Frei89

    The whole point of posting shit to a public forum is to ‘share business’ (opinions/thoughts) for others to read. So let’s not pretend this wasn’t going to get a response, not to mention it’s a totally loaded comment implying abusive relationships are okay so long as we can assume remorse on the end of the abuser and that he uh looks cute with the victim when he’s not abusing them? I can’t even say that shit seriously. It doesn’t matter that the characters are fiction because the post is speaking to a real-world problem that real people experience every day.

    Frei89 June 4, 2021 7:20 pm
    The whole point of posting shit to a public forum is to ‘share business’ (opinions/thoughts) for others to read. So let’s not pretend this wasn’t going to get a response, not to mention it’s a totally... MeloNelo3

    She is talking about a manhwa. Fiction. Not real people. Drawings. I doubt that she treats a fictitious relationship the same as a real one. Nor should you. And you MUST NOT shame anyone for their preferences in FICTION. I will not answer you anymore but maybe you should find comfort in thousand of other comments that share your mindset instead of leaving hate for the one that don't.

    Hisokasjuicytoes June 4, 2021 8:05 pm
    She is talking about a manhwa. Fiction. Not real people. Drawings. I doubt that she treats a fictitious relationship the same as a real one. Nor should you. And you MUST NOT shame anyone for their preferences i... Frei89

    Thank u!!

    Hisokasjuicytoes June 4, 2021 8:08 pm
    She is talking about a manhwa. Fiction. Not real people. Drawings. I doubt that she treats a fictitious relationship the same as a real one. Nor should you. And you MUST NOT shame anyone for their preferences i... Frei89

    Like the girl just stated her point because she wanted to know if some people thought the same and was not even rude but the other one literally came at her and started judging her and assuming she had a rape kink.

    MeloNelo3 June 4, 2021 11:19 pm
    She is talking about a manhwa. Fiction. Not real people. Drawings. I doubt that she treats a fictitious relationship the same as a real one. Nor should you. And you MUST NOT shame anyone for their preferences i... Frei89

    She is talking about the topic of abuse in the context of fiction. If you think themes in fiction exist in a vacuum you’ve completely missed the purpose of storytelling in any genre or media. Stories shape our perspective of the world and our place in it. They inform our morals and values. They are reflective of many things but one of those them is social norms. They teach us how to act thoughtfully and help us to engage with others and how they see the world. So engaging with others on a public forum: do so thoughtfully. If you don’t and fumble through the minefield that is the topic of abuse, don’t be surprised when the excuse of ‘fiction’ doesn’t quell the backlash. The way it was stated was so careless and purposefully ignorant. What’s worse: it’s was cutesy. Fucking nauseating. I’m not surprised by ppl being pissed, but I don’t condone the rape kink accusation. That’s a little much.

    Lastly, you MUST NOT be so ignorant with FICTION. Lol. Convenient to state your opinion then claim you will not answer me because of some bogus sense of righteousness in justifying the romanization of abuse and violence in fiction because...’fiction is drawings and drawings are not real so there.’ (Paraphrased but I think I got the gist)
    ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Vanth June 5, 2021 4:31 am
    if she’s really not okay with the things he has done, why does she want him to end up with the MC? if you’re truly bothered by the things he has done, you wouldn’t be able to romanticise this shit, just b... mika

    Because that’s what the manhwa is doing to the readers, creating sweet moments between the MC and that psychopath even me i thought it was kinda disturbing when he kissed her and she blushed made me think what is actually the author is tending to do?? I did not like it and I wouldn’t like if she starting to like him, nevertheless I understood her point since she already said she’s not okay with the stuff that happened and it’s still fiction it would be different if it was in real life.

    Lolipopcoca June 5, 2021 5:12 am
    Like the girl just stated her point because she wanted to know if some people thought the same and was not even rude but the other one literally came at her and started judging her and assuming she had a rape k... Hisokasjuicytoes

    If you romatiae a "relationship" in wich one rape constantly the other, you have a rape kink. And yeah, you all wanting them to be together is disgusting. And if you really thought that tour "opinion" was okay, you wouldn't be pissed by people reminding you that it is not

    Lolipopcoca June 5, 2021 5:12 am
    Yep. I feel you. I low-key want the same lol Panda

    Disgusting

    Lolipopcoca June 5, 2021 5:12 am
    Yess same Lalaroom5

    Find a therapist

    Lolipopcoca June 5, 2021 5:13 am
    I like broken men too :) Hisokasjuicytoes

    He is not o broken men. He is a rapist, an abuser. Wake up

    Lolipopcoca June 5, 2021 5:14 am
    Yeah, same here! and the people comenting on your post should calm the f*ck down because it is f*cking fiction. I hope you don't feel bad because of them. Dear haters, mind your own business if you don't agree ... Frei89

    What we like and normalize in fiction reflect our real value, and that's a fact. So go se a therapist

    Hisokasjuicytoes June 5, 2021 5:53 pm
    Disgusting Lolipopcoca

    Not u all trying to tell people that they are disgusting, guys please just ignore these kind of people that try to shame others just because they feel bad with themselves. They are just trying to put you guys down when the first ones that should watch themselves is them. Please stop diagnosing people and saying that they should go to a therapist when u are the ones that should. Peace out im just going to ignore ur comments from now on ;)

    Frei89 June 5, 2021 10:12 pm
    Not u all trying to tell people that they are disgusting, guys please just ignore these kind of people that try to shame others just because they feel bad with themselves. They are just trying to put you guys d... Hisokasjuicytoes

    You're totally right in everything you said. Thanks lord there are still people like you <3
    And for the others, you should change the type of manhwa you read because clearly this isn't for you at all.
    And with all of that said, I'm going to ignore them too because they're fucking tiring.

    Hisokasjuicytoes June 5, 2021 10:50 pm
    You're totally right in everything you said. Thanks lord there are still people like you <3And for the others, you should change the type of manhwa you read because clearly this isn't for you at all. And wit... Frei89

    I love u can we be friends?

    Frei June 6, 2021 10:34 am
    I love u can we be friends? Hisokasjuicytoes

    Following you rn <3

    Ramen_nis June 21, 2021 12:38 am
    She is talking about the topic of abuse in the context of fiction. If you think themes in fiction exist in a vacuum you’ve completely missed the purpose of storytelling in any genre or media. Stories shape ou... MeloNelo3

    this! idk why people act like fiction has no play in society and doesn’t affect people’s views on things etc.

    Rty August 21, 2024 7:33 pm
    She is talking about the topic of abuse in the context of fiction. If you think themes in fiction exist in a vacuum you’ve completely missed the purpose of storytelling in any genre or media. Stories shape ou... MeloNelo3

    I think you miss the main point. The readers who enjoy stories with abusive characters and "love" shitheads don't love them for abuse. They love them for other qualities that the writing/drawing is expressing. For example, I personally like powerful, sharp, pushy guys, obsessive with their partner and VULNERABLE in love. It is one of my favorite types in fiction. And I suppose it express some of my preferences in relationships too. But these characteristics don't imply that abusive relationship are okay. Because the reason I like this type has nothing to do with abuse.
    Also each person has his own red flags and disgust triggers in fiction. Don't forget that smth pretty tolerable for you can be a sign of a rotten moral compass for another person. So share your opinion is okay, but don't judge others

    Lolipopcoca August 25, 2024 1:38 am

    Girly you are literally disgusting

    Lolipopcoca August 25, 2024 1:39 am
    Yeah, same here! and the people comenting on your post should calm the f*ck down because it is f*cking fiction. I hope you don't feel bad because of them. Dear haters, mind your own business if you don't agree ... Frei89

    If this was just fiction then p3do storues would not be ban. But it is. Fiction is not just fiction

    Rty August 25, 2024 4:02 am
    If this was just fiction then p3do storues would not be ban. But it is. Fiction is not just fiction Lolipopcoca

    Stories like this one are pretty much mixed with smut and aim to satisfy some sexual desires. And "rape" is one of the most common sexual fantasies among girls. The same goes for multi-parter sex or rough power control sex. There is nothing disgusting about fantasizing. So this is the case where fiction is just for entertainment. Although I do agree that it should be banned for kids.

    Rty August 25, 2024 4:36 am

    Oh, guys, and I think it is too bold to think that author here "romantisize" abuse. When the authors really aim to state an abuse as a part of a normal relationship, they create "overall good natured" character who acts the whole story like a normal nice person, but then abuse their partner for "understandable" reason (for example, out of jealousy, misunderstanding or smth like this) and the couple just gloss over abuse like this was nothing and go back to being sweet and caring to each other. This is what should be called "romantisizing abuse". Because many readers don't even understand that "good person" will never do shit like that to their partner no matter what.

    Here in this webtoon He yang is a total unredeemable shit and even readers, who like how he started to care about FL, never state that he is a normal guy and their relationships are healthy. This is 'cause it is clear that he is a dangerous psycho. It is not romantisizing abuse when the abusive person has shitty personality and we all know that he is a bad guy. As for whether you ship the couple or hate it, that depends on your personal triggers

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