I love BDSM. Some mangas do go in depth to really explain bdsm and developed their characters through this. But most yaoi mangas use it as a sort of fetish. Authors add these elements in to spice up the story, without really exploring the context which is why the stories come across as such. 1 reply
The people who like it will obviously not answer this question unless they want to get bashed by someone. So yeah, most of the answers here will probably agree, it's gross. Always follow the majority when ethics and moral comes to play. It's how we live. 1 reply
Gonna be honest. I'm not bothered by it. In fact I love the stories that explore these taboo subjects. It excites me. It's an unspoken desire, which is never accepted in reality which is why we read fiction. Fiction gives us this opportunity to explore or to unleash these fantasies of ours, which explains why most of the time it is romanticized. ...... 3 reply