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Yoo woon did it so that those harsh critics would stop. Had he been extremely quiet and hating everyone else, the criticism will start again. Besides, the best medal one could have is when the people who used to bully you, groveling on the ground, trying to get on your good side (▰˘◡˘▰)

It's a Shonen Ai ╮(￣▽￣)╭

he tian*

i was even ‘who is this??` when i saw the first panel. lols forgot

He doesn't know anything different. Yes with Chun Sam things are different but you are asking him to be something other than what 20 years of the bleakest home life has taught him. He is trying. He is floundering but gods bless he is trying to be happy. Somewhere deep inside him he feels discardable. He doesn't want to be a burden for fear of being cast off as defective or being sub par. He IS trying but it is going to be hard for him and anyone who love him. Love is easy. Trust isn't so much.

Agree! pisses me off that he's not even the least bit trying to change that kind of attitude and continues to hurt Chun Sam. I mean this is exactly the same as what happened with that asshole ex of his that he gave his "virginity" to, I mean would it kill him to at least talk it out properly with Chun Sam so they can work at it together instead of using him as a punching bag. Not gonna be surprised when something bad happens and then he's gonna be all depressed again and relies on Sam to pick him back up when everything could have been avoided by simply communicating or some simple solution like that. I get that he may not have a lot of confidence in himself due to his father/family issues but it's the fact that he's not even trying to change that even one tiny bit is what makes me angry.

I'm not going to say Min Gyeom has no faults. But when it comes to what happened at the party and the way he was treated afterwards, you cannot blame him for any of that. If he was a woman, would you be placing the blame on him like that? “You shouldn't have been wearing those clothes. You should have defended yourself.” That's typically victim blaming for sexual harassment. Also, Korean culture is different. It's really important to respect your seonbaes. Koreans will put up with so much shit because respecting your seniors is something very important in their culture.

exactly what I'm saying. I can only see a pessimistic selfish person... Maybe I'll never undestand bcause i'm too insensitive to others "depression" but the thing is, as u said, he DOES help himself at all and that's what I don't understand...

I know that what the sunbae's did will should never be defended bcoz being a senior doesn't give any ounce of right to do that to anyone. That is just so unrespctful but what I kind is doing nothing at all. And I guess the sunbae-dongsae relationship is to be blamed... and maybe I'll never get it at all bcause whenever I encounter any problem even with the people older than me, I always and will let them know how they just did something wrong. but not totally disregarding the social or age difference. even of there's no actual apoligies aor action taken, I just have to let them know they did something wrong even if it's in a casual manner. telling them I mean

what i mind*


and that's why i don't feel or get him... maybe i am a strong personality person so... sorry

ur a shitty person op. he "could've changed his clothes first and then he felt harassed but didn't do anything." please take those exact fucking words to every woman who's been sexually harassed. don't fucking blame min gyeom, or anyone, for being the victim and letting themselves take the harassment without doing anything. it's not his fault the ones around him were being horrible people.

he DOESN'T

Wow well said