If we genre of BL away from this story,whatever Iltak has gone through is pitiful. Literally SA-ed as a child by a child too,he's homophobic for a reason. If only this story wasn't portrayed as "dark" comedy but instead shown through a sympathetic light,maybe we could have come to love his character more.
Also,people don't hate this story because he looks like a feminine person,they hate this story because he's a minor who's also constantly being sexualized for his feminine looks and figure.