I genuinely think authors need to retire the victim x abuser trope. It’s not cute it’s just sad. It frustrates me that every time I come across a story like that, people react like, “Oh my God, I can’t wait for his redemption arc. I can’t wait to see him fall to his knees, fall in love, realize the error of his ways” blah blah blah. Like please.... It’s tasteless, It gives nothing I seriously can’t wait until more people start to realize that
It’s not romantic, it’s not deep, and we’ve completely lost the plot with the ‘enemies to lovers’ concept. I’ve seen way too many people confuse that trope with straight-up abuser-victim dynamics as if that’s the same thing. It’s not. Not even close.
There’s something disturbing about how comfortable people have become with romanticizing pain, control, and manipulation. The idea that someone who has emotionally, psychologically, or even physically harmed another person can suddenly be redeemed by love isn’t just unrealistic, it’s dangerous.
I wonder if we’ve all collectively lost the plot when it comes to romantic storytelling enemies to lovers is never actually what it is anymore lmao. What once was a fun, dynamic narrative about conflict, tension, and eventual understanding has now been twisted into something unrecognizable. Too often, people conflate ‘enemies’ with ‘abusers’ But those are not the same, one is built on equal opposition and emotional complexity; the other is built on power imbalance and harm. Sighh
It’s not romantic, it’s not deep, and we’ve completely lost the plot with the ‘enemies to lovers’ concept. I’ve seen way too many people confuse that trope with straight-up abuser-victim dynamics as if that’s the same thing. It’s not. Not even close.
There’s something disturbing about how comfortable people have become with romanticizing pain, control, and manipulation. The idea that someone who has emotionally, psychologically, or even physically harmed another person can suddenly be redeemed by love isn’t just unrealistic, it’s dangerous.
I wonder if we’ve all collectively lost the plot when it comes to romantic storytelling enemies to lovers is never actually what it is anymore lmao. What once was a fun, dynamic narrative about conflict, tension, and eventual understanding has now been twisted into something unrecognizable. Too often, people conflate ‘enemies’ with ‘abusers’ But those are not the same, one is built on equal opposition and emotional complexity; the other is built on power imbalance and harm. Sighh
2025-05-06 23:30 marked
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2025-04-21 21:21 marked
people keep using japanese terminology while commenting on korean media :////
it's not senpai, it's sunbae
it's not yakuza, its gangpae or just a fucking gangster
its not sensei, its sem or seungsengnim
it's not arigato, it's gomapsumnida
do the fucking decency to use the fuxking correct terminology
it's not senpai, it's sunbae
it's not yakuza, its gangpae or just a fucking gangster
its not sensei, its sem or seungsengnim
it's not arigato, it's gomapsumnida
do the fucking decency to use the fuxking correct terminology
2025-04-19 08:40 marked
It’s a photography club. We’re doing weekly shots of our best fucks. weekly moaning event sessions every friday. no cameras, just raw art. I post daily yaoi and yuri videos, photos, mangas. i accept recommendations. we frequently discuss what we should grope next and document it. currently we are studying jinx for that. the stories change weekly. Tell me if u want to join our sacred circle.
2025-04-18 22:49 marked
Nah, you’re real for that. I also find it super annoying when the seme doesn’t prep the uke’s asshole properly (like spit and two fingers aren’t gonna cut it) and then just sticks his Empire State Building of a dick into uke
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Abuser x victim rant