Kshna143's Topics (322)

Meant to upvote

i think some people need to remember everything happened have the cause of it..i didn't say what Chowong do were a right thing..but let's take a look for the main reason..people won't get mental illness without any reason..

*Chowon

could you please resume to me what happened and what chowon did?? i can't recall

Am I getting this right you're blaming Dojun for every shitty things Chowon did? That is kinda messed up, I know Dojun shouldn't have neglected him the way he did, he should have never married him in the first place if he was gonna act that way, but that in no way justifies nor excuses the way Chowon acted.
I guess if at least he had vented out his anger on Dojun it wouldn't be as bad as it is, but he decided that if he couldn't have him then no one was gonna have him soo yeah that's messed up.

i am not blaming Dojun for everything but you can't denied that Dojun is the main reason why he is like that..thing will not be ugly if he be more honest with Chowon..i already said whatever Chowon did are bad and terrible..no doubt..but what is the cause..communication etc..if you meet psychiatrict they will track and trace the main root of the problem

i will say it again..whatever Chowon did were indeed terrible..why he didn't direct it to Dojun..?? simple..it's because he loved him..he loved him, so why did he pull all that shit..?? also simple..it's a sign of his mental disorder
started showing up and his abandonment issue..he think whatever he do are right, so Dojun won't abandon him (it's abandoment issue)..but it will backfire him (like what happened now) when he finally experience the real affection from his new lover etc..his guilt, regret will haunt him and it will lead to self destructive behaviour..Kyungsoo also play a big roll..he didn't give Chowon chance to explain..he said he knew Heesoo personally, and that push Chowon over the edge (trust,rejection,judgemental)..but can't blame Kyungsoo too because he is not aware with Chowon situation

lastly..i am sorry if my opinion offended some of you guys

I wasn't asking why he didn't directly attack Dojun I was just saying that if he had done that it wouldn't be as bad as it is since the other people that he threatened were totally innocent. And you might not remember that but Chowon was said to be pathologically jealous, Dojun completely neglecting him did not help but he's not the cause of his mental illness.

With all that said I however do agree with the fact that he should apologize to him for the way he treated him when they were married but just for that, nothing else.

i do remember..but like i said..everything happened must have the trigger, the main root..pathologically jealousy is one of mental illness sign for schizophrenia, anxiety, and personality disorder (i have personality disorder but not as same as Chowon and i low-key have pathologically jealousy)..to people who have personality disorder, the pathologically jealousy will only happened once they loved their partner, friend etc..the main root to it is trust, and communication..reassurance, communication, trust ..it can triggered their symptom if they lack any of that from people they love..it can happened in marriage, friendship etc..but in Chowon case it is obviously from his marriage..personality disorder not something that can inherited or get by gene like other mental illness..

I suggest you should inform yourself a little better about those, obsessive jealousy isn't something that you can just have by being with someone who neglects you, like I said of course it does not help and triggers it even more but it's not the cause. Besides his relationship with Dojun and Kyungsoo we know very little about Chowon, but from what I've seen of his family I think it's more likely to be coming from his education, the environment he grew up in, rather than his relationship with Dojun. I mean he's quite literally been introduced to us as a self entitled piece of shit, and that has nothing to do with Dojun it's just the way he was raised. Also lmao I don't think there is such a thing as "low-key" suffering from obsessive jealousy and some parts of your comment were really confusing but yes you can, depending on the genes passed onto you by your parents be more vulnerable to mental illnesses such as personality disorders.

I thought I was the only one who remembers.... I'm crying now..

i will assumed whoever forgot about those fact are some minor who still can't afford their panties..

thank you