Kshna143's Topics (322)

Choi Yule wasn't the bottom though? ;P

in an easy target he’s the top

Yes, that's what I was saying....

Victim blaming at its finest. The bullying in the past was no 'game', at least not for Sakuma who got traumatized by it. He wouldn't want to get revenge if not for all this shit he went through in the past, so I can't see how is he at fault here.

victim blaming..?? so toying people hurt is not wrong..?? well ok..and about bullying..i already said what tsukasa do is wrong too..so where the hell i put all the blame into seme..?? can’t you just see from both side..?? btw i’m sorry if i offended you but the statement of ‘victim blaming’ just too much..thank you

I didn't even say that you put all the blame on to seme. The thing is, what he's doing is morally wrong, but who's the one responsible for his current personality? If not for Tsukasa, he could be a normal guy without a thirst for revenge. Bullying, abuse and other harsh circumstances are changing people. It would be wrong if he just took out his anger on somebody innocent, but Tsukasa is the one who broke him. That's why even if I'm not an advocate of 'eye for an eye' mentality, for me Sakuma is simply a victim and Tsukasa is a culprit all along. He's a sadistic bully and he's not even sorry for all the horrible things he has done. He's a kind of person who can make your life a hell, make you depressed and push you into committing suicide without any reservations or remorse. It's easy to say that Sakuma is also at fault. Yeah, he could be more forgiving and move on, but I don't think that anyone has a right to say that if they're not victims of bullying themselves. If your friend or family member was in the same situation as Sakuma, would you also say that they're 'at fault'? I honestly can't see from both sides if that means holding a victim partially responsible for abuse and being too lenient with a real culprit. The law is also on Sakuma's side. You won't go to jail for toying with someone's heart, but beating someone up, burning them with cigarette and swindling money... However, what's the most important here, Tsukasa mentally scarred Sakuma and it's not something that can be compensated or fixed, especially that Tsukasa doesn't even feel sorry. Tsukasa's responsibility is clear as a day, Sakuma's... not so much. He could just leave Tsukasa alone, but as I said, he wouldn't ever want to take revenge if he didn't have a reason and his reason is Tsukasa's cruel behavior. It's not something that came out of thin air. Sometimes even mere words can be incredibly hurtful, all the more psychological and physical abuse. Anyway, you didn't offend me and I hope I also don't sound too harsh. I just want to make my views clear on this issue and it's not my intention to argue with you.

ik, their website crashes so much now it pisses me off