I’m not here for arguments just conversations and questions! If you have a question feel free to ask I will try my best to help. I am a victim of SA so I have strong opinions on “dark romance” here is an amazing article if there is confusion
https://talynnkel.com/blog/2016/1/20/rape-disguised-as-romance-why-i-stop-reading-most-romance-novels
When I’m wrong I can admit that I’m wrong but I do need solid information for that so as to not just believe anything
♡dead inside ♡
♡HATES rape tropes abuse tropes!!♡
♡crazy for high quality goods♡
♡very picky♡
♡but laughs easily♡
♡always hunting for the highest goods♡
♡hate people who love rape or SA bl♡
♡I love everyone who is kind my little pookie bears♡
Addicted to the good stuff
P.s I am mentally goofy so if it sound like I’m mean I’m not trying to be I sometimes have a hard time discerning whether I’m being fair, kind or that good stuff
Remember that if you are saying it’s okay because it’s fiction you are forgetting that the wrongful presentation of sexual violence contributes to rape culture. It isn't about differentiating fiction and reality, everybody knows it isn’t real, its about cause and effect. Sexualizing, downplaying, romanticizing rape along with trivializing sexual violence in any manner contributes to rape culture because MEDIA including fictional media, is the biggest contributor to rape culture. If not, one of the biggest. There is no safe space for ANYBODY who wants to misrepresent sexual violence or SA victims. There should never be one, and authors who do that should be held accountable. Think about it we shouldn't want misrepresentation and sexualization of rape, it is HARMFUL content. Thank you for reading. I don’t want to argue, I just think it’s important to understand what’s okay and what isn’t even if it involves sadism here is a link to what BDSM actually means and what these people stand for:
https://www.harpersbazaar.in/amp/culture/story/essential-rules-to-explore-bdsm-responsibly-572918-2023-06-08
https://www.everydayhealth.com/healthy-sex/bdsm/
I think it’s important to note that people may not know what rape is and might not understand it or might not understand that what they are saying is hurtful and wrong, here is an amazing article that goes over these things:
https://talynnkel.com/blog/2016/1/20/rape-disguised-as-romance-why-i-stop-reading-most-romance-novels
I genuinely want to know why people victim blame and also excuse rape and abuse because it’s fictional and not in real life like I want to know what the thought processes behind that is?
Here are my thoughts
Rape isn’t excusable wether it be in writing (in books movies) or in real life I can see where people may want to separate stuff like how they say separate the art from the artist but if someone is romanticizing rape in literature and or in movies it has been shown to have real negative affects on society and how they talk about rape and sexual assault this also goes with abuse and abuse victims. As someone who was abused and sexually assaulted it hurts so bad in my heart when people victim blame or try to make the excuse that it’s not in the real world.
I think alot of ppl were expecting Chateau to be this amazing heroine that saves Ryang-ha from bad guys with the action and fights and I don't think thats what her role was supposed to be for him. She isn't supposed to be "saving" him the typical way. He needed her to help him find stability if that makes sense? Ryang-ha didn't even belive he had an identity and sense of self before he met her and I believe that's what the story is about. Him finding himself through her and they going on that journey together. I loved this story 5 stars ☆☆☆☆☆!
The ring design is simple and cute the wedding rings in most of these bl's always have this non-existent diamond in the middle
Your brother is in fact a murderer (with no remorse might I add) and is there for a reason why he is being punished in the first place. Isshin isn't exactly in the right but he's the only one who can handle Youjirou. It's the father's fault for basically neglecting him in the first place just because he's so "special" being a biter.
Because if I knew the LOVE OF MY LIFE reincarnated into somebody else I would be in their face trying to get them to remember so bad the sadness of being forgotten would eat me up to the point where I couldn't stand being around them until they remembered.
I hope they never let Aaron wear any other shoes except that converse I just love how it looks on his feet.
I currently on ch 5. How are pronouncing Czerny's name I need to know cause I'll be skipping over his name istg
How is this rated so low? It's sooo interesting and it's a bl with no smut but has an actual plot so why?
yaoi is life
What if the bracelet is coming off because of the spider web thingy he had on his foot??
The start of this story felt like "DASH" to me but it's soo different now as the story goes along I love Ian
Im new in this site. Nice to meet you!
But I want them to have sexc time without the backlash omggggg. Not complaining tho can't wait for next chapter ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
I'm gonna be reading this everyday until the next update I fear