They never said they're going to be in a relationship. Think about it. If a dude likes to you, now you're in a relationship? And now you can't sleep with other guys? That makes no sense. Y'all don't make sense. It's a two way consenting street. You become mutually exclusive, MUTUALLY, and you gave to discuss it. Have any of you been in a real relationship? Because all this hate means you guys hate everyone on tinder/grindr.
Param isn't in a relationship, so he's sleeping with another dude because he isn't exclusively dating anyone. Dude has needs. Y'all act like y'all won't sleep with different kpop idols if given the chance.
“dude has his needs” like he’s an animal in heat with no braincells to use lol also param himself told han he had feelings for hwi, he aware of his feelings and leaded him on accepting his date, so sleeping with han right after is quite hypocritical
They are not "technically" in a relationship, but literally, like just the day before, Param agreed to go on a date with Hwi. Even in the car, with Han forcing himself on Param, Param told him that he has feelings for someone else and Han even acknowledged that person to be Hwi. So this were they or weren't they in a relationship doesn't matter, the fact of the matter is that Param himself knew this was wrong and tried to stop it from happening.
They are not "technically" in a relationship, but literally, like just the day before, Param agreed to go on a date with Hwi. Even in the car, with Han forcing himself on Param, Param told him that he has feeli... Giffle
No. They are not in a relationship. Have you never gone on a date before without being in a relationship? You might have feelings for someone, but does that prevent you from doing it with other people? No. They AREN'T in a relationship, they are both carefree.
No. They are not in a relationship. Have you never gone on a date before without being in a relationship? You might have feelings for someone, but does that prevent you from doing it with other people? No. They... melinaa
My point was not if they were in a relationship or not. I never said they were in a relationship. My point was that Param himself even said he shouldn't be doing this because he has feelings for someone else. Why would he say that, if he didn't see something even microscopically wrong with what he was about to do?
No. They are not in a relationship. Have you never gone on a date before without being in a relationship? You might have feelings for someone, but does that prevent you from doing it with other people? No. They... melinaa
sorry but if u aware someone likes u, u lead them on accepting to date them and u like them as well (as param admitted) is literally common sense to respect their feelings?? so u find it okay to go wherever your horniness brings u just because u aren’t “official” with that person? that’s so fucked up honestly
Yeah, but if you’re talking to someone you don’t have s3x with other people. That’s basic human decency. It’s just common knowledge. Sorta how like you shouldn’t have s3x with your best friends crush. Of course there is no obligation and you can do it and technically it’s not wrong, but you still shouldn’t do it. Also, they literally agreed to go on a date the day before. It’d be a little different if they hadn’t. Also on top of that, don’t you think that your s3x partners have the right to know if you’re going to have other s3x partners? If Hwi was like a one night stand thing or once in a while thing it’d be different. But they’re continuously going at it on a regular basis WITH FEELINGS INVOLVED, even though they are not official and Param has feelings for both guys, it’s still incredibly inconsiderate to Hwi and Hwi’s feelings. It’s like- leading him on into a comfortable spot and telling him to go further and that it’s all good, but then throwing an alligator at him or something. Also, let’s not forget the Param was in an emotional state and Han’s was taking advantage of that. Hwi has done that too but Param was never emotional to the point where hans got him.
They agree to go ON a date, not to be mutually exclusive. If they said yes, let's be in a relationship, I would understand. Those are two different things. He's not cheating if they're not in a relationship. THAT'S common sense. You guys sound like immature teenagers without any real life experiences. Just because two people have some feelings for each other doesn't mean that they're in an official, MUTUALLY exclusive relationship unless they communicate it with each other. And they didn't. Sure it might hurt the Hwi but it's a fact. You can't shame someone for that. He wanted sex with a guy he had a crush on for years. And it was mutual attraction. You guys are unreasonable.
They agree to go ON a date, not to be mutually exclusive. If they said yes, let's be in a relationship, I would understand. Those are two different things. He's not cheating if they're not in a relationship. TH... mitsy
okay so to be a mature adult u need to don’t give a shit about other people feelings unless “u talk it out” and until then u free to act like a selfish prick, noted. And imagine calling other ppl “immature teenagers” just because they have sensibility and common sense lol cause yours is not common sense just selfishness and if u think this is okay then, well, good luck
okay so to be a mature adult u need to don’t give a shit about other people feelings unless “u talk it out” and until then u free to act like a selfish prick, noted. And imagine calling other ppl “immat... -l-u-
They agree to go ON a date, not to be mutually exclusive. If they said yes, let's be in a relationship, I would understand. Those are two different things. He's not cheating if they're not in a relationship. TH... mitsy
I never said it was cheating, I just said it was morally wrong. Also agreeing to go on a date is basically saying that it’s a possibility to get together and in this case would maybe(?) be giving false hope. Also duh I sound like a teenager, I’m 15 for crying out loud. However, my age doesn’t really mean that I don’t have common sense. When you act, you have to be considerate of others. For example, back in middle school I had a nice body and was semi-popular (popular in the way that everyone knows and likes me, but i don’t have many friends). Because of that I used to talk to a lot of people and got asked a lot. Now obviously, I was interested in some of the people who asked me out. I never dated any but I would talk. When I would talk with people I would always make sure that they knew that I was flirting with other people as well while I was talking to them and made sure that they were comfortable with that. Obviously every so often I’d have 1 or 2 people that I was seriously interested in. When that would happen I’d stop talking to other people, and put a hold on it. I don’t do those things anymore because instead of being like- anorexia skinny with clear skin like I used to be, I’m obese with a pizza face now so no one’s interested in me anymore. Anyway, my point is, even if you do like h03ing around, you have to be considerate of others when you do so and make sure that they know exactly what you’re doing and what you’re intentions are. Also again, there’s a difference between a s3x partner and a one night stand. Even if you are in an open relationship, I feel like your partner should know if you’re messing around with other people. Not only for emotional attachment reasons, but for general safety reasons too. Even if I was messing around with someone regularly with no romantic feelings, i’d like to have an idea of how many other people they’re doing it with, and who exactly they are doing it with because STDs spread quickly baby. Also, Hwi and Param could be on completely different pages with how their relationship works. They’ve never really had a discussion on how their partnership works, at least to the reader. As far as Hwi knows, Hwi is the only person Param is having s3x with. They should’ve discussed this before all this started happening. Also, while yes the s3x was consensual and both parties wanted it to some extent, both parties were also incredibly emotional and in the wrong headspace. Param is like- crying that he hates Hans and then Hans is like “no i’m a good person let’s have s3x” and I’m sorry but nobody makes good decisions when they’re crying. And i’m not shaming either parties for wanting to have s3x with eachother, I’m just saying that it was done under the horrible circumstances where Param was extremely upset and where Param was planning to go on a date with Hwi literally the day before.
sorry but if u aware someone likes u, u lead them on accepting to date them and u like them as well (as param admitted) is literally common sense to respect their feelings?? so u find it okay to go wherever you... -l-u-
They never said they're going to be in a relationship. Think about it. If a dude likes to you, now you're in a relationship? And now you can't sleep with other guys? That makes no sense. Y'all don't make sense. It's a two way consenting street. You become mutually exclusive, MUTUALLY, and you gave to discuss it. Have any of you been in a real relationship? Because all this hate means you guys hate everyone on tinder/grindr.
Param isn't in a relationship, so he's sleeping with another dude because he isn't exclusively dating anyone. Dude has needs. Y'all act like y'all won't sleep with different kpop idols if given the chance.
“dude has his needs” like he’s an animal in heat with no braincells to use lol
also param himself told han he had feelings for hwi, he aware of his feelings and leaded him on accepting his date, so sleeping with han right after is quite hypocritical
They are not "technically" in a relationship, but literally, like just the day before, Param agreed to go on a date with Hwi. Even in the car, with Han forcing himself on Param, Param told him that he has feelings for someone else and Han even acknowledged that person to be Hwi. So this were they or weren't they in a relationship doesn't matter, the fact of the matter is that Param himself knew this was wrong and tried to stop it from happening.
No. They are not in a relationship. Have you never gone on a date before without being in a relationship? You might have feelings for someone, but does that prevent you from doing it with other people? No. They AREN'T in a relationship, they are both carefree.
My point was not if they were in a relationship or not. I never said they were in a relationship. My point was that Param himself even said he shouldn't be doing this because he has feelings for someone else. Why would he say that, if he didn't see something even microscopically wrong with what he was about to do?
sorry but if u aware someone likes u, u lead them on accepting to date them and u like them as well (as param admitted) is literally common sense to respect their feelings?? so u find it okay to go wherever your horniness brings u just because u aren’t “official” with that person? that’s so fucked up honestly
Yeah, but if you’re talking to someone you don’t have s3x with other people. That’s basic human decency. It’s just common knowledge. Sorta how like you shouldn’t have s3x with your best friends crush. Of course there is no obligation and you can do it and technically it’s not wrong, but you still shouldn’t do it. Also, they literally agreed to go on a date the day before. It’d be a little different if they hadn’t. Also on top of that, don’t you think that your s3x partners have the right to know if you’re going to have other s3x partners? If Hwi was like a one night stand thing or once in a while thing it’d be different. But they’re continuously going at it on a regular basis WITH FEELINGS INVOLVED, even though they are not official and Param has feelings for both guys, it’s still incredibly inconsiderate to Hwi and Hwi’s feelings. It’s like- leading him on into a comfortable spot and telling him to go further and that it’s all good, but then throwing an alligator at him or something. Also, let’s not forget the Param was in an emotional state and Han’s was taking advantage of that. Hwi has done that too but Param was never emotional to the point where hans got him.
They agree to go ON a date, not to be mutually exclusive. If they said yes, let's be in a relationship, I would understand. Those are two different things. He's not cheating if they're not in a relationship. THAT'S common sense. You guys sound like immature teenagers without any real life experiences. Just because two people have some feelings for each other doesn't mean that they're in an official, MUTUALLY exclusive relationship unless they communicate it with each other. And they didn't. Sure it might hurt the Hwi but it's a fact. You can't shame someone for that. He wanted sex with a guy he had a crush on for years. And it was mutual attraction. You guys are unreasonable.
okay so to be a mature adult u need to don’t give a shit about other people feelings unless “u talk it out” and until then u free to act like a selfish prick, noted.
And imagine calling other ppl “immature teenagers” just because they have sensibility and common sense lol cause yours is not common sense just selfishness and if u think this is okay then, well, good luck
I agree with this person!!!
I never said it was cheating, I just said it was morally wrong. Also agreeing to go on a date is basically saying that it’s a possibility to get together and in this case would maybe(?) be giving false hope. Also duh I sound like a teenager, I’m 15 for crying out loud. However, my age doesn’t really mean that I don’t have common sense. When you act, you have to be considerate of others. For example, back in middle school I had a nice body and was semi-popular (popular in the way that everyone knows and likes me, but i don’t have many friends). Because of that I used to talk to a lot of people and got asked a lot. Now obviously, I was interested in some of the people who asked me out. I never dated any but I would talk. When I would talk with people I would always make sure that they knew that I was flirting with other people as well while I was talking to them and made sure that they were comfortable with that. Obviously every so often I’d have 1 or 2 people that I was seriously interested in. When that would happen I’d stop talking to other people, and put a hold on it. I don’t do those things anymore because instead of being like- anorexia skinny with clear skin like I used to be, I’m obese with a pizza face now so no one’s interested in me anymore. Anyway, my point is, even if you do like h03ing around, you have to be considerate of others when you do so and make sure that they know exactly what you’re doing and what you’re intentions are. Also again, there’s a difference between a s3x partner and a one night stand. Even if you are in an open relationship, I feel like your partner should know if you’re messing around with other people. Not only for emotional attachment reasons, but for general safety reasons too. Even if I was messing around with someone regularly with no romantic feelings, i’d like to have an idea of how many other people they’re doing it with, and who exactly they are doing it with because STDs spread
quickly baby. Also, Hwi and Param could be on completely different pages with how their relationship works. They’ve never really had a discussion on how their partnership works, at least to the reader. As far as Hwi knows, Hwi is the only person Param is having s3x with. They should’ve discussed this before all this started happening. Also, while yes the s3x was consensual and both parties wanted it to some extent, both parties were also incredibly emotional and in the wrong headspace. Param is like- crying that he hates Hans and then Hans is like “no i’m a good person let’s have s3x” and I’m sorry but nobody makes good decisions when they’re crying. And i’m not shaming either parties for wanting to have s3x with eachother, I’m just saying that it was done under the horrible circumstances where Param was extremely upset and where Param was planning to go on a date with Hwi literally the day before.
THIS!!! YES ABSOLUTELY!!