inlovewithsnow2002's Topics (183)

Are y'all really complaining that this abuse survivor traumatized queer boy makes bad decisions in his first relationship are y'all really calling him stupid for being a human person with emotions fr I think many of y'all have forgotten that homophobia ruins lives and have also subsequently forgotten that people have like flaws and stories require conflict if you wanted a simple fluff story with no conflict no motivations and character flaws more comolex than "says mean thing once" and no real plot beyond making you smile and feel good go read a one shot god forbid a traumatized person be traumatized in these stories jeez also pro tip if you really can't handle three chapters of conflict go look up the raws or look up when the story ends this comic only has 51 chapters (excluding the sside stories)

Im so upset most of this story centers on the most boring couple of the two I don't care about Mi Xi or Xiao Shang they have by far the least interesting dynamic I've seen in a while

To me serves as the constant and probably needed reminder that most people can not handle a mentally ill person I expect nothing less from people though

Wish someone would finish this there's 24 chapters left

This poor boy needs to meet some elder gays there are plenty of gay people who got in a relationship and stayed with their partners the entire rest of their lives 10, 20, 50 years even all relationships have the potential to be fleeting that's just part of life but they also all have the potential to last a life time if you let it

Matsuda is deeply misogynistic and like in a way that's really annoying and he's just not punished for it in the slightest and I'm not talking about sleeping with a bunch of women that's whatever it's the way he so clearly views women not as people but rather status symbols and potential assets and while realistic it's a type of misogyny I genuinely don't see often in bl and one I'm really glad I don't see often in bl what's worse is he's so blasse about it that it's really disconcerting I don't like it

This story frustrates me because on the one hand Cheon Je-hwa is incredibly annoying the way he's treating the MC is frustrating but I also like her it like I think the writer did a good job of showing us both his personality where he's coming from and also how immature he is Jaewha is acting like a teenager in his first relationship with someone he really likes because well he is this is the first person he's ever liked he's someone with an already incredibly abrasive and up front personality while also being cursed to never fully explain himself and he gets attached really easily and to him based on what he said that night was important not just cause he likes him but because we can see that Jaewha places a lot of importance and value in intimate relationships like this we can see that with the way he reacts to his friend just liking someone else or how he straight up says "I will never sleep with anyone else ever again" like that night and those types of relationships are clearly things he values a lot and part of what's getting lost in translation is the fact that he's is also a pretty aggressive personality so it doesn't come if as if he's a romantic that he is but you can see it in the ridiculously clumsy and immature way he's handling the entire situation making incredibly snap and impulsive decisions not understanding just how being drunk seems to work (he seems to have not even considered the idea that maybe Seonwoong is a black out drunk which is stupid yes but also reminds me of something a child or someone who rarely if ever drinks would assume) putting everything single interaction he has with Seonwoong on a pedestal or overthinking it getting jealous over the most petty stuff and jumping to wild conclusions in a panic it's all very much like a teenager in their very first relationship and if Seonwoong were a different person I think it would be something he very organically grew out of none of these traits are good but they are just kinda things experience helps kids grow out of however Seonwoong is kinda of the worst type of person he could of fallen for and that's not me like complaining about him as a person that's me saying they're both vastly different people with vastly different understandings of the situation Seonwoong is someone who prioritizes the well being of others over himself however also he's someone who centers his own interpretation of events over others and a lot of that is probably trauma he's been through a lot but some of it is kinda the worst kind of paternalism where you assume by virtue of your good intentions that you know what's best for someone and that's actually a very frustrating person to be around because any genuine attempts at connection unintentionally get thrown back in your face the moment they decide that actually you're better off without them striping you of any chance to make your own decisions or express your own feelings about a situation and he does this to Jeawha like a lot and I can very easily understand why he's frustrated by this but also Jaewha is not sharing all the information that would explain why he's so clingy because I don't think he's realized he has to again like a kid where you sort of expect the people around you to read your mind and get annoyed when their guess is wrong but instead of correcting them you sinner in your annoyance it's all very immature this entire thing but idk I think the way the problems are so specific to their personalities is actually pretty interesting it makes me wonder if the writer will satisfy the problems in a satisfying way maybe maybe not either way at the moment solid 3.5

Doyun not ending up with anyone actually makes a lot of sense imo Wohae's problem was acting out due to feeling neglected a problem easily solved by both a getting a non neglectful partner and b getting better at communication and knowing when to leave something he ended learning already Doyun's problem however is very different and can't be solved by just having a better relationship his are solved by becoming a better person internally Doyun and Gyulwoo's journeys mirror one another Doyun similar to Gyulwoo is someone so obsessed with the status quo and fitting in to society that he's basically become a doormat similar to Gyulwoo but the big difference is well Gyulwoo was bad at it and refused to draw people in to his bullshit while Doyun was very good at fitting in to society and hiding his secrets and continued to rope people in to it that tendency is something he needs to rectify before getting in to another relationship not during the relationship not to mention Gyulwoo's primary issue was fear Doyun in contrast is just a fucking push over

What the heck dude he didn't even use her money hell he wanted to return it and she gave it to him telling him to keep performing no part of that is a scam she walked up to him gave him her money with the promise that he'd keep performing and not only did he continue doing that he was even planning to give it back to her why are you mad

NGL I do not like that they made her fat (and she's more midsize than fat but she is very clearly larger than all the "good" ones ) that and going out your way to make her look not unsettling but ugly ..... Hm