Anyway we see how people take side
We see how people blame minato (see, you always get painted as the bad guy cuz you're the only person having problem in the relationship and not your significant other, guess what, its fucking tiring to be like that ok, it eats you alive - even more when shit keeps on happeing, keeps on repeating)
We see how people blame Shizuma (sure cant stop being a good guy but god forbids you from choosing whom to make happier, even if its about your soulmate, YOU GOTTA WANT EVERYONE TO BE HAPPY because you can and trust your S.O)
BUT at the end of the day Ya all have to realise no one is at fault, just because it worked by theory doesn't mean that it'll work in all relationship. You can analyse over and over and over again but everyone is different. There's no one at fault because these two are perfect for each other.
I know someone whose a bit like shizuma. Its crazy, its crazy how he never sets boundaries. I remembered one of my friends say that "If i was in a relationship with him i would have to stay strong" and i called bs on that, cuz, for obv reasons, it hard to put that emotional burden on yourself. Secondly, is the fact that his boundary should include you too and if he lets people go over that boundary, its a big problem.
Being with a nice person and a naive person
*continuation because idk why it posted before i finish typing
Anyway, being with a nice and naive person is a big hurdle. You'll always seem like the bad guy (no one says you are, but you feel that way) and in reality that sucks??
You gotta have a shit ton of power to be with someone like that.....emotionally heavy on being able to accept and tell them to accept things thats are between your boundary, and that its important for them to protect it
I totally agree!!! Me and my friends always talk about this. It's especially hard for Minato since Shizuma is so unnecessarily accommodating to people even when he doesn't have to. I could never bear to be in a relationship with a person like that. It''s hard to be understanding but for them to just have no boundaries, its like you're sharing. What's worse is Shizuma has no boundaries even with strangers
Hope this gives a hugeee slap to those who took Claude for granted. :/ so much of them saying shit about him towards Athy.
My bad, accidentally disliked
Ayyyy Its fineee (⌒▽⌒) ~
Is it courage or cowardness to atempt suicide twice? When I die, will I finally get your time, will you finally visit my grave? How much despair more must she endure? I cry, its sad. What's even more sad is when its caused by misunderstanding.... ML, I hope you suffer enough. Suffer even more than the pain Violet been through. Don't you dare repent till you do so.
Well, apparently he will. We'll see how i guess.
I would say at this point it's neither of these things. First attempt she was afraid and still wishing for a change in her life and second she literally just gave up in life
This is just me, but a good friend would not tell their friend's friend that 3 years is nothing and that they understand the person the most. Trying to tear away and keep a friend to yourself is hypocrisy. (Just my opinion)
thats right my opinion tooo
AH this.mahwa. was soooo refreshing. Like a can of lemon soda on a nice sunny day