The top is a red flag, honestly, ive only read until chapter 7 and my gosh. Firstly, as someone whos more "experienced", why is he jumping straight to sex and "bdsm" with someone who has never experienced either, their "practice" is so stupid, he should be telling the bottom what their " practice" entails (telling the bottom what hes gonna do, telling the bottom what the bottom can or cannot do) instead of jumping straight into spanking. Spanking and choking the bottom, without his consent, because he assumes the bottom will like it cause he likes pain, is sososo WRONG. Bdsm is based on TRUST and COMMUNICATION. Ther3 was this one panel in chapter 7 where the top's resolve/control over himself snapped, that is sk wronh, he should have control over himself as the self-proclaimed "master". Moreover, having sex or penetration isnt what bdsm is about, its just the general idea and fetishization people have of bdsm think its all about sex. Atleast from what the othwr comments said, there is aftercare and safe words, two also very important things.anyways super disappointed, this is not a good examply of bdsm, the need to communicate, esp the too since he has more experience. I wasnt gonna type this out but after reading other comments say that this was a good example of a bdsm relationship, NO it not. But tbf this is a fetish bl so whatever
Read about 2 chapters further. First attempt was heinous but when people say it's a good example of bdsm, they probably mean the new chapters because of how much better they handled it.
Even in the recent chapters it was handle pretty poorly
He gives character ai daddy vibes lmao nothing abt the way he acted its healthy bdsm
I read the rest of the chapter and honestly, there hasnt been much improvement. Sorry. He apologised and told the bottom that he was gonna spank and choke him, good, ok. I might be nitpicking but where is the aftercare?? The top should also be checking on the bottom all the time, asking for his safeword. Not to mention, why is the safeword so long, just stick to the stoplight system. They barely communicated before their "scene" and when the bottom verbalised his hesitation in penetration, the top got aggressive instead of understanding. Its his first time, pfc hes nervous. I think the top just likes the idea of sleeping with someone "pure" (a virgin). honestly, this "bdsm" is just rough sex with a dommy mcdomerson and a stereotypical omega. Its just sex with bdsm elements. And people may think this is green, but its not. They're just so used to seeing rape and abuse marketed as bdsm.
YES OMG I AGRE3
Honestly their "relationship"(cause theyre not actually dating yet) is not a red flag, its just the sex and "bdsm"
Fucking finally! I see all these comments made by clearly young people (that I think most aren't even over 18) how he is a green flag, omg he so sexy. Bitch wtf is sexy about someone screaming "IT HURST IT HURTS STOP IT HURTS" while you fuck them without any prep???! And an anal virgin at that, the dudes asshole is probably ripped. How can you stay hard after hearing that?? And he is clearly much older he should set and example for the bottom, not take advantage of his lack of experince in bdsm and sex in general (but honestly by the way the top is acting I don't think he himself has much experince in bdsm as well)
Guys, honestly Yeoreum having had sex with alot of people isnt really that surprising, it might be cause a lot of you guys aren't gay or may not have many gay irl friends but actually 16 people isnt thattt much. Ofc it depends on the person and not all gay people are like this, but a lot of my gay friends are quite promiscuous, or theyve had a "slut phase" (non derogatory!), esp if theyre discovering themselves. Not to mention, the hook up culture at gay clubs, bars, and meetings. Im gonna repeat myself again, this is person dependent, not all gay people are like this, straight people are also like this, and this is all based on my personal experience.
good thing, I ain't having that slut phase
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