I'm a openly gay guy. I'm 38 and I can tell you its different for everyone.
Me,I knew before I was ten,and I never had any worries or angst over it either.
Not much help I know, but everyone is different 3 reply
I was thirteen. I'm gay and it was with a older guy,about nineteen,on a pile of hay on a welsh farm. It was 25 yrs ago now but I still remember he smelt of strawberries. My butt was sore after lol! A year later I was having sex with a guy in my native Scotland,after he'd screwed me I went home and put my clothes in the washing. Cue my mom going "ho...... 1 reply
I'm gay, and a bottom. It depends. One of the guys I see regular just now is well,em,'proportioned',but not a silly size,just a bit bigger and thicker than average. Some positions some times,like first time of the night,can be uncomfortable. But were both experienced so that doesn't take much to fix, so best,either on the couch,me on my knees bent ...... reply