parents wants/dreams can sometimes suffocate and destroy their own children. projecting their selves to the next generation. learn to have boundaries. also, never assume. always ask then listen to children's answer first before storming to them and attacking them. they will learn that they can be attacked if they see your angry image.
I suddenly remembered the first manga that introduced me to bl/yaoi world.
Only The Ring Finger Knows. sigh. took me a while to find copies of the novels but it was great that I found it and made me realized this great and sometimes scary genre.
Those were my first too! And the first ones I ever bought...