I literally cried when they met for the 1st time at the restaurant and rui put the cream on Natori's hand. Right in the feels man
I am literally crying. I am kinda jealous of his mom. She said "ofcourse i will know..i am his mother " and here, i have a mom who don't know anything about me and my interest, and always tries to force her wishes on me....
Mothers are human beings and not all the same. You see, there's no way people know what we want or not if not conveyed. I'm a daughter, but also a mother of 2. It took me 20 years of my life to sit and talk to her, is not an easy task, but as a mother, I took the task to be the first to talk and be honest. my kids are not kids anymore, 25 and 18 but they do what they want with their lives and I support them with the best of my abilities. My daughter is a citizen of the world, I don't see her in a long time, we talk a lot on the phone tho, my son is completely different person. And as human beings, more than parent and kids, we always talked and decided things together, even the next meal. I know, not everybody is like that, but try to talk, sometimes it work, even a little.
@trix I love your comment here :)
Oh, thanks! It's just accumulated old hag XP hehe
Well i really appreciate your thoughts and comment but the thing is ,my mom put blame or her own assumptions on me, without even listening to my side, she is easily manipulated by the close minded people of society and then yell at me , for instance...i am a medical student...i didn't even wanted to be a doctor ...but my mom forced me...and now i am just preparing to get a medical college for 2 years...and i am depressed and also have social anxiety...so no friends....i just ....want someone to understand me...to talk to me...and i crave for hugs....but now some days ago one of my aunt told my mom that the kids who goes to become a doctor later on don't listen anything their parents say and just do what they want...and then after hearing that..my mom is looking at my every action suspiciously...like hello why are you listening to that dumb person i didn't even wanted to be a doctor...you are forcing me...and now you just hear them talk and look at me with those eyes....i tries to tell her that and talk to her... But guess what...she said that people have seen more world then me...and i don't know anything.
Sorry fir rambling about the sorrows.
Don't be sorry. I wish I could go and give you the hug you need... You were forced on a career you didn't wish, and the culture in your country is a little tight when is about women right? But although now is bad, let's change the approach... You will become a medical doctor, you will be your own person and then, think about yourself. You can be and go wherever you want in the future. There's something I always say to my kids: You are your own person, you are meant to the world not to me, you don't own me anything. Kids are not possessions, they are people. And you don't own your parents, no matter what they say. Culture is strong and the way people think around us may influence them, but in the end we have to make our own choices. I chose to be apart from my family in general, because I have my view of thing, and it worked. And so you know, I have bipolar disorder and panic disorder, but since I understood my condition I was able to live a fairly normal life, with friends and the family I create on my own. Don't loose your faith in yourself and grow strong and aim for your freedom to chose what YOU want for you <3
It's not about my country, here most of the people are open-minded and the culture is also supporting women since the last decade, but it's my mom who has this problem... I don't know it's her personality or if she has some mental issues...
and thank you so much for your kind words, I wish my mom could also understand that.
Anytime! And good luck ok?
Did anyone noticed zhang xixi's transformation? My boy looking like a snack ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
He's def stepping up his game
Wow, its so unique.