Guys its just for fun but in your opinion, who is the uke and who is the seme??? Because this manga has a yaoi tag so i guess it will have at least one spicy chapter right?
BLs usually have established seme/uke roles even if there's no sex. Idrk, it's kind of a thing in Japan, but yeah clearly the author intended for Kitahara (black hair) to be the top/seme. Another way you can figure this out is by looking at the pairing order which will usually be on the book cover. Name x Name, NameName, or Characteristics x Characteristics in which the first one is always the seme.
At first, i expected the girl has lesbian or gay friend or herself is lesbian or any experience related with queer people, but miss your story has no correlation. Plus, trauma dumping to another people is totally rude miss. I know the point of her story is "being different", but in my opinion her story and mc relationship actually has no correlation. She is just projecting her trauma into another people