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his approach towards keeping haechan isn't that good. :(((

What happened?? I never finished the extra parts kf the novel

I was hoping that Minjae a red flag as in how he only care about MC and wouldn’t give a shit what is happening around.
That's the kind of red flag I was thinking about ╥﹏╥....

It is true. He basically manipulating everything and everyone around Heechan to make Heechan think that Minjae is the one for him or something like that.
Heechan was not really sure about his feeling and their relationship going forward so Minjae did "something" to lure Heechan.
The most underwhelmed & confusing end I've ever read. After that I was questioning Minjae character from the start to the very end. It will make you re-thinking Minjae true character, motives and feelings. I had to re-read everything from the very beginning.

Real except I gotta reread too

I’m not even surprised. Sure a bit disappointed but Sam K’s semes are really possessive and lowkey obsessive too. Tho I guess it makes up for how well they write their stories and plots. So I am sadly an apologist XD

he’s not really a red flag! He’s js really… possessive

Well I mean look at him he can't be that perfect my man has to have some flaws

honestly as long as it's not grape i'd forgive anything (only in fictions tho don't come for me)

IMO he is still a green flag. In summary, what he does is not respond to calls/texts a few times when something bad happens to him. He times coincidences in this way which makes it seem like Heechan brings him gold luck and staying apart brings bad luck. Heechan, having undergone a supernatural experience, believes it easily and agrees to move in together. BUT the fortune-teller lady does say that they weren't coincidences- their fates really are intertwined forever. So take it as you will. They're very much in love.
(=・ω・=)

Oh yeah, definitely possessive. He was trying to make sure everyone around Heechan was hitched up so that he wouldn't have any rivals lol. Honestly, valid particularly for Namsoo who used to have a crush on Heechan.

It's still lying. It wouldn't be questionable if it was done just out of sillyness. But, Minjae does it out of his lack of confidence in Heechan. That, Heechan might not feel as connected in a relationship since he didn't experience love from anyone. He's scared if Heechan drifts apart.

This kind of ending where no communication happens when one of them is in doubt, raises possibility that Minjae may forever be scared of that feeling. He might repeat this kind of scenario presenting Heechan essential to his life. So if something bad happens, Heechan can feel guilty and be close to him somehow.
It's a mini tragedy that this relationship didn't reach its full potential even though both of them love each other.

U said everything i felt when i read the ending (i couldnt explain it in words like this)

I see your point! I'm probably too biased towards Minjae (and also desensitised because of yaoi toxicity ) you're absolutely right about the mini tragedy however I do think they've definitely evolved from after those incidents and onwards- also out of the story, beyond the ending- to a point Minjae feels loved and secure enough not to repeat guilt-tripping Heechan while Heechan gets a bit more expressive.

I just saw the whole thing more as an attempt of childish, harmless manipulation, because it doesn't change the fact that Heechan loves Minjae too much and would still quickly agree with him after realising it on his own. I also feel like Minjae knows love. He has been loved and left behind in the past. So my take is that his insecurity stems mainly from Heechan's nonchalance (about everything, that's just the guy he is...he's explosive but not very expressive (he doesn't deny his love for Minjae but he does get a bit shy iykwim) which makes Minjae question if he likes him back frfr (rather than the gravity of Heechan's feelings) which I feel like he sort of gets to realise and confirm slowly as Heechan is so sincere so I don't see him trying this kind of thing anymore in the future. Idk if I made sense lol kk.

I get it too. I also very much like Minjae, so it appeared more as a tragedy to me that a character like him who has someone like Heechan love him, resort to such actions.
If we think their life went on like the stories in extra (when I read the story first, it wasn't there), then it's a very happy ending of

MAJOR SPOILERS ( for other readers)



Getting accepted by Heechan's family, knowing how much sure Heechan is about him and that he actively wishes for him to be happy.
But it would a bit tragic if their life went on like how main story ended, with Minjae laughing and living with him but actually scared behind the back. It's just even if Minjae can be not destructive, the actions itself are. So it has a chance of straining the relationship despite neither of them wanting to.

I think it threw me off more than it should've cause everything was going good but the last of chapter suddenly turning dark.
It's like thinking there's nothing then finding that last 1% of germs.

Oh man, why Author gotta do this at the end? It was going soo good and suddenly changing the vibe
I did suspect Minjae to grow possessive but this is beyond possessive. Doubting Heechan's feelings bound to have lots a emotion trauma on both sides.

yea my mouth was wide open while reading his reasonings, lmfao. i hope that author would tweak the ending a bit .

What Minjae did is beyond possesive. He was calculating af for his own benefit. And that was the sole reason I had to re-read everything from the beginning just to deep dive into his character. Is he red flag like many toxic MLs in BL? No, not on that level but still dissappointing because many (me included) used to think he is a green flag. And the fact author had to tweak his character and their dynamic at the very end of novel is just.... Savage. There was no answers, readers were left with more questions at the end.

Tbh the whole arc about him trying to get killed by his relatives was weird af. I've been thinking and it just feels like that whole arc was just there for this kind of development to be possible at all which takes it even more off the course of the entire story...

Absolutely agree. I don't mind the romance at all tbh I hoped for sparks between MC & ML from the beginning with MC souls swapping as the main story but the romance is not done correctly plus Minjae entire POV & background was weird. It was not giving he yearns for MC since highschool but something entirely different. The story should have ended with them happily dating or something much more simple without adding any spice and seasoning used for different main course.

The extras have beautifully showed how lovey-dovey they are. Also there are parts which MTL couldn't convey properly. Minjae liked Heechan enough to cover the settlement for him. But Heechan at one point made a comment about his sport which Minjae misunderstood and had been annoyed with him since then. Also their daily interaction is very sweet.

The things that could be complained is how we readers were given the chance to know things that characters didn't know. Like Minjae patting and telling him to go home when he was missing, the settlement covered by Minjae, the sex tape Heechan discovered and also background of Heechan and Taekin, Minjae's faming scenarios. So, it doesn't make sense how parts of Minjae’s behaviour and background were never explained.

Frfr

Uh, here. lol people hating on the members obviously didn’t pay attention or misunderstood whats going on. Maybe English isn’t their first language? Maybe they’re 12 year olds? I’m not really sure how people could misunderstand what happened in the past. I guess people just can’t read and like to jump to conclusions. And SPOILER








If they read the novel, the haters would know how wrong they are.

You can’t be serious

Dead serious. :)

Well, I am not omniscient neither I am a hater. You saying about English not being the first language, I guess it is not your as well. I clearly said "Members are really good to OG" which they were not. And I am saying based on what I have read so far in the MANHWA and I don’t really feel like they really understand or stayed beside OG when he was suffering.

1. not completed but id say close
2. My opinions are subjective so I’ll leave that to someone else
3. Not quite, each ml gets their own side story/ending
4 at least I wouldn’t say so, she mostly prefers solving issues herself and can relatively hold her ground. (Not quite sure what to comment abt morals tho)

So it it worth reading?(⌒▽⌒)

I would personally say so! Especially as 115 chapters (which is just about close to the ending, I assume) is kinda short! The plot is a bit awkward at times but it's a fun read!

Who's he

Chinese actor who recently died (killed). And before killing him they sexually, mentally and physically tortured him. As far as I know now, his body was mutilated but higher ups regard it as a suicide to cover up. There are even videos taken from dark web where it showed that he was brutally tortured by few people (including actor, actress, his manager and body guard).

Ohmygod, I hope he's at a better place now

It's crazy how they dare to touch someone famous like him. Even have videos of the torture. It's so sad how the laws don't protect people

Its not about daring cuz the actresses/directors/etc were famous or in higher power

It is said that they have powerful backing like some mafia shit that even government don’t dare to touch. And this whole case would have been labeled as a suicide case if paparazzi didn’t capture Yu Minlong's falling from the building (speculate that someone pushed him) and those videos that was spread in the dark web.

Even though he was famous he had nothing in his name. He was used by his company so badly. He didn't even had enough money to go by and had 24/7 surveillance. There was around 22 companies under his name and the company embezzled money and so on and on. He even said one of his Interview that how he wish he could treat his friend but alas people didn’t understand the weight of his words.

Yeah I still feel sad every time I remember him. I dont know and ‘cause I dont watch cdrama but what happened to him gave me a background of how actress/actor’s life. It’s too cruel. And last time I know the mother and fans seek justice. I hope all criminals involved will get what they deserve. No one deserves to be treated like that.