wait people dislike the uke?
dude he is literally one of the very few that have stood up to toxic semes. Like literally I seriously like him cuz of that. Black hair dude is literally being abusive(yelling and shit), inconsiderate(trynna solve everything with money despite knowing that the uke does not want it/ feels uncomfortable), and selfish(Knows how important the grades are to uke but still hung out with him/distracted him, he could of easily done that shit AFTER the exams but used studying, which is a very important thing for uke as an excuse)
you use the word “abusive” too much.
1 This relationship isnt abusive Its toxic.
2 The uke thinks hes always right
3 The ukes narcissistic
I mean Hes being rlly problematic. Hes mad that he isnt the smartest. And also Hes being a bitch ab the whole money situation even tho Someone is offering it. I understand why he doesnt want to accept it But like Hes j being Problematic. and also NOW that he knows the seme is smart. He can ask the seme for Tutoring And pass the rest of the year. So both are happy
I don’t wanna be rude but if u were in the ukes position wouldn’t u do the same or let somebody push U around control you and throw money around in your face if the seme was less passive then I would understand what you are saying but if I was in that position from day one when he threw the food on the floor I would’ve left cause behavior like that would be to unbearable for me and the amount of times the seme apologized and did the same thing again of course the uke would be mad like literally the seme is giving the uke handouts that he doesn’t want not only is that embarrassing for the uke it’s hurting his pride btw I’m just looking from the ukes POV and what I would have done in a situation like that
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Toxic relationships ARE abusive... which is why they are toxic in the first place. Abuse does not necessarily mean physical, there are all sorts of abuses such as verbal, sexual(at first seme literally forced himself on him, he also kept pushing uke to do sexual shit), even the tray flipping shit was a form of abuse.
He is not mad that he isn't the smartest, he is mad because he was LIED to. He felt that seme took advantage of him. If he studied normally (w/o the seme bothering him) and he still placed 12th place, he would have been finer with it. If I were in his place, I would have done the same ass shit.
He also knew that the seme knew how important grades and studying were for him. This is why when he found out that the seme was literally just 'fucking around' to him it shows how the seme does not care about his problems at all. Seme doesn't give two shits about what Uke wants, he only cares about what HE wants.
Also, I think you don't know what the definition of narcissism means. Uke has an extreme inferiority complex. (he keeps repeating how everyone else is richer, he got so embarrassed when seme met his father, etc)
Even that aside, narcissists prioritize themselves. Uke did not do that when it came to the seme, instead, he put his problems aside(studying) just to help him out.
You just mad that there is finally someone who is standing up against toxic relationships instead of being submissive. If I were him you best believe I would have acted up. I would of left seme's bitch ass the second he threw that fucking tray. Your daddy issues are not my problem, it doesn't excuse your shitty behavior. You gotta fix that shit before you're ready for a relationship.
I think the people who are anti uke are just into that behavior in general. Or have a fucked up understanding of concent and all that shit from the amount of toxic semes there are in bl. Compared to other stories like painter of the night, this shit is vanilla which is why they think semes actions are not bad.
Yes toxic relationship Are Verbally abusive But they aren’t physically Abusive. The person i replied to Said it was abusive. And So you know every single narcissist have inferiority Complex’s. And the uke Does have narcissistic Traits. He may not be a narcissist But he does have traits of them. I do know what the word Narcissist means. And lastly The uke couldve just left When the seme Threw the Tray. I would’ve left And called him a stuck up bitch. But the uke just stayed there. And yes I know the seme took away time from the uke But now that the uke Knows that the Seme is very smart Cant he just ask For him to tutor him. Its also Just the beginning of the school year.
And The seme Uses money as his way Of surviving.
Hes abused by his parents and has never been loved His only was Of getting affection is By money. He doesn’t Know any better. Its the his way Of Surviving. AND i also think the uke is being in a way ignorant Only caring about himself And not even questioning The seme. At the end of the day. This petty Middle school Bs. The uke is being hard headed and the Seme is Trying to Find affection. And by doing that hes making the Uke mad. I think that none of them are In the right. The uke is getting mad over something that can be resolved Super quickly and The seme Is being dumb.
The semester is literally guilt tripping the uke. After the tray shot and the other sbit the same used his daddy issues an excuses and the uke fell for it (which is why he said something along the lines of " I wish I knew about it before" I think the seme is being manipulative. Also just cuz you don't mind ic someone were to pay for you doesn't mean everyone else would. Not everyone can accept a large sum of money including me. I'd rather experience hardship then let anyone do that and the uke prolly feels the same. This is also a form of financial abuse, where if the seme were to give him the money, the uke would have this feeling of "owing" to him making him more submissive and shit because he "paid for it". Look up financial abuse its a literal thing.
Also, once again, it's not about the tutoring but rather the fact that the seme lied to him and distracted him. The uke mentioned that he wasn't able to study because of the seme. That was prolly the reason he didn't do as well. It's not the fact that the seme is smart or he needs tutoring, it's the fact that the seme is only thinking about himself and dismissing the problems of the uke.
IKR, if they want a pushover uke who would forgive the seme no matter how toxic they are, this is not for them. They should just stick with black lotus, yours to claim or banana scandal season 2. No hate to these manhwa because I did enjoy reading them but man the ukes were all too submissive to their toxic semes. It infuriates me sometimes when bad people get away with their behaviour just because they are hot/rich.
Once again ill say it. The seme is only doing this bc its his only way of Surviving. He uses this method so that he doesnt Need to ever go through what he did. Yes that does justify His actions But gurl ur not even Listening. And ALSO if i was in the ukes place i wouldnt get the Money bc I find that pitty. And anooying. AND ALSO the school system is Sooo different in korea. They Have Multiple Semesters. And also You barely reading my comments bc ur Skimming through things That are important. And lastly Why are you acting as if Lying is a crime. Like I know The seme Did this with The intention of wanting to spend time with the uke which made Him Study poorly. But like your acting as if he lied about Something huge. Im not excusing the semes behavior Bc He shouldnt have lied but your acting as if its such a big problem when its not.
If it were like a tiny lie like lying abt coming in my room and taking my blanket and saying you didn’t I would agree with you if the lie wasn’t that problematic but the seme already knew all the work from the beginning he lied abt having to study so he could be close to the uke I had to keep thinking abt it cause the seme said that on his mind was the uke the whole time and it was same with the uke that’s why the uke couldn’t study cause the seme took up most of his time to the point where the ikr couldn’t stop thinking abt him but if it was the same for the seme it obvious he couldn’t get much studying done either that’s why I realized he knew all the work already and just lied to the ikr saying that he didn’t know the work to get closer to him i think they talked abt it if I recall properly in the last chapter if I’m wrong sry
...love, a toxic relationship is abusive because “abuse” isn’t just physical or hitting. Mental and emotional abuse is very much real and just as damaging. Uke doesn’t think he’s always right and he isn’t narcissistic. (Narcissistic- a person who has excessive interest to themselves)
A more narcissistic character should probably be the seme, for he has a selfish personality and only thinks about himself in most cases. For example, buying uke’s lunch when uke told him he was uncomfortable with that and didn’t want money spent on him; the seme threw the food on the floor and bought him more. Seme then told uke that he would throw the food down a millions times until he agreed to eat with him. (Plus he forces a kiss on him a few chapters back and asks why uke made him do that. Said he should just listen to him)
You also go on saying that uke is “just mad he’s not smart” which is simply not true. He’s probably is upset that he got a low rank but that’s not the point. The point IS that seme lied to him and used him all this time. You would be bothered if your boundaries were overstepped many times, so what’s the problem that he is also mad because of that. It’s been said many times that the uke doesn’t like hand outs, he don’t want feel as a burden and feels like he has to give back. It makes him uncomfortable. Seme knew this and still did it, he apologized a lot and did the same shit over again. Tbh uke is the only non-problematic character rn. He just wants to go to school to help himself get out of the poverty he’s in, then gets thrown into blondies and seme’s drama that he didn’t ask for.
can someone please summarize the entire story for me pls?
they were highschool friends. I think sungho has a crush on dohyun at first. Based on the pov of sungho, dohyun tormented sungho, raped him, and make
him as his "sex buddy" which is not true because on dohyun's pov, he really is in love with sungho. He kidnapped dohyun because he wants to revenge on the guy who tormented and raped him (in his mind only). Sungho really misunderstood the intention of dohyun towards him. Dohyun didn't remember anything because he had a short term nemory lost and before the police arrest sungho and got drop out of school, dohyun was shocked because he don't know what is happening and why did sungho do that so he tells himself to move on and forget their relationship because sungho will never come back to him. Everytime sungho wants dohyun to remember something from the past, he acts and do roleplaying on what happened that day and sungho's role is "dohyun" and dohyun's role is "sungho". Its like a flashback on what happened that day. We notice that there's a date (which is I don't remember how many days hehe), that's the days where dohyun "raped" sungho (in his mind only because I know that most of it, sungho initiated it). Later on, all the past memories of dohyun comes back and we can see there his own pov which we can see, he truly loves sungho but he never tells sungho that. By saying "cute" towards sungho is his way on expressing his feelings
i love how he tian and mo has literally become the main focus for every single episode despite the story starting off with with jian yi and zhang xi as the main couple.
it has been jian yi and xi for years with just little bits of he tian and mo, even after following them for many years jian yi and xi are my favorite couple but i can imagine how long and patient he tian x mo stans are. Im sure old xian also wants to focus more on this couple since it’s been a really long time with jy and xi
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