It's not really the pace that's the problem. I'm fine with slow. It's the unnaturally extra behavior. I get keeping people at a distance and being overly protective of yourself on a personal level, but being all "nooo I hate you go away" after all that isn't really how humans act. And then even if he did act in that childish way, LiHuan would be over these stupid games by now and have moved on to someone less obnoxious.
Kind of confusing and fast af