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i’ve heard a lot of antis on tumblr say that fujoshis pretty much fetishize and stereotype gay men and don’t actually care about the struggles of the lgbt community. what are your thoughts on this? i’m really just curious, being a fujoshi myself
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I think a lot of fujoshis do take it way too far and only see gay men as a porn category. When I was in high school there were several girls who would act super creepy around my gay male friend, called his relationships yaoi, call anything involving gay romance "sinful" and were very obviously obsessed with gay male sex to the point where they wouldn't watch a show if there weren't male characters they could ship and draw pornographic fanart of. It's pretty sick when you think about it. Gay people, including lesbians, are ridiculously sexualized, and our relationships are rarely portrayed outside of the realm of porn. I still love yaoi because I love homosexual romance, but it's hard to forget that the vast majority of yaoi is porn for heterosexual women.
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why are there only girls in the yaoi fandom and no gay boys or 5.....causee Yaoi is done by girls..its for for girls who like boys sooooo it is true because yaoi is problematic and badly portray gay men with stereotypes and like a fetish
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Yaoi which is gay porn is for heterosexual women. Lesbian porn is for heterosexual men...... This tells a lot..................
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Well, this assumption is based on an easy habit called generalization. It's something we all have done. You see there are certainly some people who read yaoi and start putting the fictional into real life and we have no clue if it's a lot or not a lot since we lack stats.
Anyway, some of the people who see these actions, this may have a negative reaction causing them to generalize seeing the illusion/fallacy that ALL people that read yaoi are like this.
A little after note, of course, behavior like applying fictional to reality that some people have is very easy to correct as long as you remain calm and take the time to explain to them. Some of these people are younger in high school or late elementary, swearing and cursing aren't going to change anything, they won't learn from that, they'll just yell at you back getting distracted by your anger.
Unless the goal is to satisfy your own personal anger then good on you I guess...
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^^read username
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Howdy justme (●'◡'●)ノ Still using your second account I see (●'◡'●)ノ
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Antis on tumblr......well that says everything lol who even listen to these bitches on tumblr?
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Not only on tumblr pretty much everywhere lots of peeps have the same opinion
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It's just a part of this community. Similar to kpop fangirls, some of them are just too ignorant and selfish that they even harm their biased idols. There's no limit on age and gender hence you can see a lot of different people who share same interest. We can just hate the toxic people and educate them when they appear online/offline.
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I think none of you is lgbt have lgbt friends, have been to a lgbt center places
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Okay. Here’s the thing. A lot of yaoi is essentially just porn, because some women like guy on guy stuff. (Men can openly liked girl on girl stuff, but for some reason when a women likes guy on guy stuff it’s weird.) anyway, there are also romance stories, romantic comedy yaoi, fantasy yaoi and other things. But point blank, most people read it because they find guy on guy sex hot. And that’s okay. The problem comes when you can’t separate fiction from reality and you take your porn and try to stick it in real life situations. That’s what some people do, and it’s usually the younger people who really shouldn’t be reading it in the first place.
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I took an LGBT course in this semester. We learned tons about the gay community and its history. There were openly gay, trans, and lesbian people in that class and I can proudly say they are my friend. We also visited an LGBT center dedicated to helping counsel transgender youths who need positive advice. So, no I am not LGBT but yes, I have LGBT friends and have been to an LGBT center.
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asexuals are not queer
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Well I guess it's just some people that do that but honestly, I haven't met any or read fujoshis do that. I think it's just people in your school or area? Because no one at my school acts like that really and personally, I like yaoi for the romance and development and skip most of the sex scenes. So if you don't like the sex scenes, then skip them too. I suggest picking multiple pages and using a laptop or something with a mouse to quickly scroll down if you are that disturbed
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I don't really know but personally, I think it's good to like yaoi because people who like yaoi can't really say I don't like gay people since they read gay things... I had neutral feelings towards the lgtb+ community because I didn't even know what it was about until 6th grade. I'm a person who is accepting in the first place and isn't that against things so liking yaoi just futher makes me support the lgtb community because it shows that romance between same gender people are the same as the romance between any couple, different gender or not. So personally, I care about the community. I would stick up for anyone who's getting bullied. I don't know where people get the thought that people who like yaoi don't care about the community but they're not me so I don't know how they think.
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HaHaHa... I've stopped care about this... Mom, I'm all grown up ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ actually its not totally wrong. There're some fujoshis who're homophobic and some who fetishize them. Extremist exists in all field of life. They're antis so they said it. And if it were totally false this anti group would never exist.
In our religion perspection reading yaoi supposed to be a deadly sin so of course its not good. If you're an atheist, you'll have to face a bunch of people bitching you if they knows you're fujoshi. So just stop thinking and do whatever you enjoy! Stay safe!!
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HOW THE FUCK DO YOU SEUXALIZE GAY MEN ( I know some people do, and I’ve seen it) BUT HOW
LIKE OH MY GAY FRIEND LIKES THE SAUSAGE OBVIOUSLY HE JUST NEEDS ANY MALE WHATS SO EVER TO PUT IS PONY INTO, OH AND THE SEX SCENES ARE ENTIRELY REALISTIC, ALL WE NEED IS SOME THRUSTIN BOO AND TWO HOT MEN AAHAHAHA.
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okay so its about a dark skin uke who sells his virgnity to a man and somehow they met again and the seme offers him a job at hosting company. his work outfit is like a sexy bunny costume. and then the uke gets harrassed by one of the customers and the uke and the seme have sex after.
oop if it wasnt clear I need the title of the yaoi
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kawaii_obaka_kun/