
BL with older men (from 30 upwards)

I'm organizing my age gaps, so still in progress, but you can check this out :)
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/3011869/

Need daimei with shizun x disciple pairing

What kind of rubbish are you cultivating?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/what_kind_of_rubbish_are_you_cultivating/

Any BL reccs with a tanned character

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/i_am_the_prince_of_this_land/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/teppeki_kotetsu_knock_out/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/amaregulus_soldier_soother/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/pick_up_love/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/eyes_clouded_by_the_tiger/

Any stories with omega as the top

I honestly don't remember if the top is a omega but my brain is telling me the top is one
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sutenaide_my_hero/

Omega Seme
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/2781372/
I still haven't read them but tags on Mangaupdates said they were.
Got too much lined up on my read list atm to confirm if they are this specific pairing there's not much around for this pairing as I already checked them all

BL where one of them actually dies for a while or pretends to do so (novel,manga or manhwa im fine with anything)

Roses and Champagne
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/roses_and_champagne/
After Killing You
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/after_killing_you/

Any media with a trans character

ok i mis remember the title
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/boys_run_the_riot/

Here’s a list I found that may help as well
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/577604/
Any danmei recommendations where both the ML and MC are not good people
It’s enough if both of them are at least proud and selfish
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sangyang_the_wanderer/
I beg you, pookie read this
This is a novel but I really love Annoying Zhao Gongzi. As the title suggests the ml's really annoying haha, but he's also lowkey the more normal one between him and the mc. (kinda spoilers but the mc's also annoying & a tsundere lol). Proud and selfish is a good way to describe both of them. Also when I say annoying, I don't mean that the reader gets annoyed whenever they come on screen. I mean that they're literally annoying each other with their BS LMAO. It's really funny please check it out if you haven't.