Elle's Favorite

i might be too autistic for this but shouldn't telling people disgusting things be considered equally as bad or even worse because they're actually saying it to real people? like why would so many people attack someone and say horrible things to them and all agree that its the right thing to do unless they are actually doing something that is wrong like harming someone? and especially when this is all over some boys love manga.. i admittedly have a strange moral compass compared to most people yet i still dont understand their thought process