Buggaboo April 6, 2021 7:51 am

Hey, just in case someone doesn't know this, SILENCE DOES NOT MEAN CONSENT. Seriously wtf, I'm so tired of seeing relationships fall apart because of bad communication. It's also a terrible plot device. I'm gonna be honest I'm pretty disappointed with the direction this went.

Buggaboo February 28, 2021 10:48 am

I know this doesn't really have anything to do with the plot or general story but I loved how the woman character was just a normal person. To often lately, I have seen so much misogyny (intended or not) in the bl that I have been reading and it is almost as if the women characters aren't even people, they've just become these hyper sexualized depictions of women through the male gaze. So it was a breath of fresh air to see a woman just be a cool friend and co-worker and not some hyper feminine representation of a weak, bitchy, or otherwise shallow female character. Food for thought I guess. Side note this was SO CUTE!

    LazyParrot February 28, 2021 11:42 am

    Naturally it depends on the author, you can just put any people regardless of everything to fill that villain role. Not only in BL, in shoujo that actually is pretty common thing. I'll say it's just the easy choice albeit cliché to put a girl as the annoying person.
    Don't forget, this' BL. You're hoping to see two guys hook on, so a woman is natural enemy to the story thus the easy choice. If it's a guy, it's going to be a jerk most likely. Not always.
    Anyway you're overthinking and please don't generalize stuffs on a whim, it's called prejudice.

    Buggaboo February 28, 2021 11:49 am
    Naturally it depends on the author, you can just put any people regardless of everything to fill that villain role. Not only in BL, in shoujo that actually is pretty common thing. I'll say it's just the easy ch... LazyParrot

    Actually I major in gender studies, I am not overthinking and I am very aware of the context in which the characters are presented and represented. Also I speak from MY experience with thousands of BL and other manga and comic genres. They also don't have to cast the woman (bitchy, senseless, mean female character with no depth) as the villain, though I agree, it is the lazy, easy choice.

    Ayumi13 February 28, 2021 4:18 pm

    Agree with you 100%! I say this all the time, it’s also common in a lot of other genres and media which is so sad. And if it’s a dude that’s the annoying one or the villain, it’s typically someone “ugly” or “fat” or whatever cuz if it’s someone hot then it’s not the same unfortunately :/

    ikigai February 28, 2021 4:40 pm

    Yes so so so true! Agree with what you’re saying 100% about the male gaze(oh how I hate the male gaze) and the stereotypical weak, shallow, bitchy female character. I was so immediately cautious when they introduced the female character because I’ve been conditioned into thinking of female characters as a plot device for the author to introduce negativity (jealousy, envy, bad behavior, etc). And I am so grateful this was not the case! I wish this is how it was in so many other mangas too (or all media really). Am very grateful for a human depiction of a woman, as a friend and a side character with their own life. Other authors need to take note!

    ikigai February 28, 2021 4:50 pm
    Naturally it depends on the author, you can just put any people regardless of everything to fill that villain role. Not only in BL, in shoujo that actually is pretty common thing. I'll say it's just the easy ch... LazyParrot

    I don’t think this is overthinking at all. I’ve read hundreds of mangas and I constantly see this trend of female characters being depicted as just caricatures of, as OP put it, hyper sexualized depictions of women through the male gaze. They’re bitchy, they’re rude, they’re superficial and only care about appearances, they’re overly interested in feminine and cute things, they’re sly, their whole existence is centered either on looking good or finding a boyfriend. I understand it’s BL so obviously the focus will be on male characters. But it’s not like we exist in a bubble where only men exist. Friends, coworkers, family members, acquaintances, staff. There are so many places in a persons life where women simply exist. I wish that BLs would just also depict those relationships and show women as people with their own regular lives.

    ikigai February 28, 2021 4:52 pm
    I don’t think this is overthinking at all. I’ve read hundreds of mangas and I constantly see this trend of female characters being depicted as just caricatures of, as OP put it, hyper sexualized depictions ... ikigai

    Idk. Sorry if this went too overboard lol, I understand you’re just speaking about manga villains who often tend to not be very well written anyway. This is just me ranting because I’m frustrated by the lack of good female character depictions in media. I just wish there was more of it and more of treating women like normal humans!

Buggaboo July 11, 2020 2:06 am

Always be wary when you go out drinking kids, never turn away from your drink or leave it for a second and if you do just get a new drink. (this goes for everyone, cause it happens to guys too) Better safe than raped and or dead
ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    CuddleQuill July 11, 2020 2:27 am

    Well, there's also the concern that the bartender could be working with someone and slipped something into your drink when his/her back was turned away from you. So don't put your faith in bartenders you don't know either, regardless of the reputation of the restaurant/bar.

Buggaboo November 6, 2019 4:45 am

Should'a had a tragedy tag, bro ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ

Buggaboo August 3, 2019 3:30 am

Ahhh the ol' switcharoo on the switcharoo of the typical switcharoo couple ┗( T﹏T )┛... so expected, its unexpected

Buggaboo June 29, 2019 3:57 am

I have a feeling the the guy who got punched has something going on, maybe hes gay and acted out in a similar way that *black sheep did because he wanted to hide the fact that hes gay, maybe hes just a dick (because some people are just ass wipes) idk but I really want him to come to terms with whatever it is and be happy and kind (=・ω・=)

Buggaboo June 25, 2019 2:29 am

sigh of relief to see the "To be continued" still there. im just sweating out my eyes its normal ╥﹏╥

Buggaboo June 22, 2019 3:00 am

Looks good, just having a little problem with the guy being a murderer, and low key insane..... no biggie ill get over it.

Buggaboo August 29, 2018 2:01 am

I put so much trust in the fact that there is not a tragedy tag, plz dont break my heart
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Buggaboo August 27, 2018 5:29 am

...

Fuck everything, my soul has been crushed and my heart torn to peices. I have been crying for 20 min straight wondering why shit like this actually happens to people.

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