i AM CHAP 17,,,it would have been so much better if she was his sister,, not a fake seducive daughter, really super annoying, i like a bond a family, it would have been more noble, auhor-nim can you not focus too much on females bodies and make cool female protagonists????
Go read return to player. Jisoo is just too fucking cool I can't AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH oh and there's also this kid who's like his little sister but she's not the annoying type which is good and she's also useful. You might find jisoo like the cliche FL at the side of the OP MC at first but NOOOO I was trickeddd she's a badass
women on drama cannot defend themselves, women on reality beats men.. ok ok not all of them (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜 .
I feel that this will lead into character development for our girl, as she deals with past trauma and finds her true inner strength. (Not that she isn't strong already, it's just that she is mostly putting up a strong extortion, but is so weak and frail inside, hance her reaction to him grabbing her)
is not like I hate her, but I hate when they show women so weak needs a savior on a such simple problem, I just finished latest episode of Korean drama married couple, I was so frustrated, how can she get beaten and cry and do nothing, I cant judge when i dont have trauma, but i think trauma will make people more violent and defensive. well I hope i will never understand their feeling all my life. I hope everyone is safe.
She had been abused for a long time by that man, she's been traumatised. She's a strong woman, but there are wounds that has not healed yet. Experiencing domestic violence is not something you can take lightly. She experienced death but was able to go back to the past and even remembered memories of a past life. Sure, she got stronger and determined than before, but it doesn't mean she can just heal the mental and emotional damage that he inflicted to her. It's kinda like PTSD. You can't blame her for being scared to experience again the pain that she had endured for so long during her past life. Just because she needed to be saved this one time doesn't mean she's weak. She's human, she has flaws. There are moments that she is vulnerable, but it's not like she can't fend for herself completely. She has done many remarkable things already all by herself and she also refuses to be helped by Ian incessantly. And that's why you cannot criticise her for needing someone to stand up for her at that very moment.
You can't blame her for being scared to experience again the pain that she had endured...............................//
this what i can never understand in many scripts, so afraid of pain yet, she does nothing waiting for his abuse.. not one or two, many scripts like that.. i saw in my life women who get into fights with their husband but both parties were injured, she bite she hits, she do anything to defend herself. i saw even women more stronger, and not just cry taking the beating or abuse from family.. in laws or husband.. so I hate when i see this kind of script, I just dont understand it, but I accept that people are weak and human and have traumas.
I understand where you're coming from. I also hate storylines like those. But still, you must take into consideration that she's not those usual weak FLs.. She's working on her disposition, she's trying to be brave. But not all efforts bear fruit immediately. She has taken her own steps to fight against Howard, but it's just that an outright assault from him, with him grabbing both her wrists and shouts at her, caused her to panic and be scared. I'd actually applaud the author for this situation because it enhances the realism of this story. Just because she was able to return to the past with past-life memories doesn't mean she will immediately turn into a completely invincible person. She changed tremendously, that's a fact. However, there is still parts of her that she cannot shake off yet. And this makes her journey even more enjoyable to watch, because you were able to see her progress even more although she already improved so much. Just like how you can only pursue beauty from ugliness, you can only pursue strength through weakness and perfection from flaws. I am by no means trying to degrade your thoughts. I just wanted to let you see the other side of the coin. I hope you will take it with a grain of salt. ( ̄∇ ̄")
thanks for sharing your opinion, as I said before I dont hate her Infact she is more amazing than myself as how much she accomplished, I didnt even said I hate her or said she is bad, my comment was about the satiation that I completely felt that the author only wanted the prince charming to come and save the weak pitiful girl.. to show his strong side and strong love.. to me this scene was staged for teenagers who will be happy to see the prince come to save the princess, I would accept it if it was with a weapon or dangerous . but to me this whole scene was ridiculous . but in the end they told him to let her take her own revenge to overcome her fears
No, see, he's no stranger, that's the thing. When you've been beaten senseless by a partner, someone you love and were meant to fully trust and rely on, it fucks your brain so bad. If it were someone else, maybe she could have pushed him off a ledge or something. But they had HISTORY. A really bad one as well. Mind you, she was also tipsy--a detail we could highlight here. I see no problem that someone saved her in this scene. It's a collaborative effort anyway. She helps him, he helps her.
This is totally different from just being strong... even in reality the abused will hear things like why they didn’t defend themselves or get away from the relationship but it isn’t that easy. The MC is strong enough now and we have seen that but her past trauma had a huge impact on her and it might take some time for her to get over it... ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍
What the hell?!?!!? Now you making fun of people who have experienced domestic violence???! SHUT THE HELL UP!!! MY GRANDMA EXPERIENCED IT FROM MY GRANDPA AND ITS NOT LIKE SHE DIDNT TRY TO HELP HERSELF AT FIRST BUT AFTER IT KEEPS HAPPENING AND YOU KEEP GETTING OVERPOWERED ITS FUCKING TRAUMATIZING!
FUCK YOU YOURE DISGUSTING
I know you are (probably) applying this to the entertainment section but it’s still super rude of you to say that... for the story the MC was abused and she had no power over it, it’s not like she could just scream in the mansion for help since there was no one to help her... her reaction this chapter was a result of PTSD from her past, it’s the fear she’s gained from Griffon’s abuse... maybe you’ve watched too many drama shows to not give a shit about human trauma it shouldn’t be something you should get annoyed about...
I mean you’ve got a point but in this situation the girl is kinda wasted and generally women’s physical bodies are weaker and smaller than men. Plus the girl wanted to scream, not like she just wanted to get beaten or something.. but couldn’t because she thought if she screamed he would punch her because that’s what he did in her past life so she got scared, bruh no offense but you should analyze something better before criticizing
excuses excuses, scared to get slapped so she did nothing and stay put and let him abuse her?????????????? . I understand she had a trauma .. but you know trauma sometimes make people stronger .. women are weak physically, cant defend themselves?????? so just get beating obediently, what a fool are you??? be beaten and beat him up is that what we should teach girls to do..
Ok wtf dude I don’t know what you’re tryna do but stop being so rude. It isn’t fucking “empowering” of you to make fun of people’s traumas even tho it’s fictional there’s a lot of real life cases like this. Don’t call it a fucking excuse, that’s just so rude of you. There’s times people getting abused can’t help but feel helpless because of the environment their in, so to blame them for being “weak” or not hitting the abuser back is absolute fucking shit of you to say. Maybe it’s time for you to cool down on the TV dramas and reflect, that was rude of you to say especially for real victims of abuse hearing this I feel extremely mad...to tell them “oh we taught you to fight back so why aren’t you doing it?” Is fucking stupid.
Yes, some people DO get stronger from their trauma. However, IT TAKES TIME to do this. And in this case, Iris is still in this period of overcoming it. That is why she reacted like how anyone would after being beaten for so long. You lose hope in your ability to 'win' against them. You can only try your best to not trigger them and make it hurt more. Also, are you looking down on the majority of people who don't get over their trauma? They are victims, not fools... Iris certainly isn't a fool if you've been reading the story at all.
The only thing I agree with is it is nice for stories to teach people to stand up themselves which this story ALREADY is! She is already making a name for herself! Plus, the story hasn't even ended yet ended yet you've made that conclusion. You need patience.
Omg girlll seriously...I don’t think this has anything to do with being a male or female, like anyone could be in this situation and feel helpless. Have u ever seen or read about real life violences then u would understand how victims suffer. To call them excuses is really hurtful for victims who have been through these experiences.. and Iris was abused by her own husband whom sge must have trusted and she didn’t have anyone else to rely on...not everyone can transform into a superhuman and just deal with it. If u don’t understand from all these replies then its just sad ( ̄へ ̄)
no wonder, many people stay on a toxic relationships, I see many supporters of abusers here and is normal for them to get abused and say we cant help it , thats life how supposed to be. generations to generations , silence you up not to talk back or fight back, brainwash you is normal behavior to give up and live under their feet, when you talk they say you are rude, why,?,, cause the majority are willing to be abused and stay victims and sell miserable to the outside . first time many will pity you, next time maybe more will pity you, 3rd time you are just a stupid person to them but they will still pity you.
Honestly to be able to just degrade people that have gone through violent and emotional traumas like this I wonder what kinda of person you are. It’s not like we are condoning the act of abuse, what we are saying is that sometimes it is hard to come out and ask for help because of fear. I don’t think I’ve ever hated someone I’ve never met but you are a terrible person in my eyes. I hope I’ll never have to meet you because you make me sick quite frankly.
Bruh are you for real? The only one that seems to support abusing is you dude grow up?? Can’t understand people’s point and can’t take criticism? Not our fault you can’t accept opinions and facts. And you call it attacking you when your the one who’s attacking us. Dude, i already said analyze it before criticizing it, no need to be so hard to deal with, nobody supports abuse ffs wtf. It really does show that your thinking is wrong on so many levels
now i am only reading the heroine and her brother story, and her helping some side charactere lives, i hope to see more of that, how to change the fate of some people, i start to skip many plots even the daniel plot and the beauty males plot