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So that people don't start cursing me, I'm not okay with all rape in yaoi, only some.
Everyone has their kinks for yaoi manga. I'm not okay for some things so I don't read those yaoi manga.

It's alright I know what you meant. To me rape in yaoi is so unrealistic in times that I can't even fathom trying to compare it to real life

Yeah you are right, we all have different kinks. even i like some yaoi that has rape on it although some are so unrealistic.
Why would anyone curse you, every opinions are meant to be accepted.

I mean if you get down to it, my love prize in viewfinder starts and continues throughout with quite a bit of rape, but the stories awesome so there's almost no hate (づ￣ ³￣)づ

It's actually normal for ppl to have rape fantasies. Het erotica for women is filled with non con. Where the women is forced to feel pleasure from some hot dude. I can't stains het romance anymore bc of my own personal issues and trauma but I still like the whole non consensual theme. One theory behind it is that many women (and prob gay men [& maybe straight men] as well but I've only read about it with women) are sexually repressed by society (& why you see so much non con in Japanese manga/fiction geared towards women). They feel inhibited and guilty over their own sexuality. I know I've been conflicted over my sexuality since I was a very young child and while I loved romance I found myself sometimes getting uncomfortable with the sex scenes even while I wanted to read them. Like a lot of my issues it became worse as I got older. I find het erotica embarrassing now and all my old books I used to like he I'm getting rid of. I don't think rape should be taken lightly, I've been raped more then once myself but I'm not going to feel guilty for enjoying fiction that isn't harmful. It's not like women are going to suddenly start trying to get raped after reading non con. I get if it's not someone's taste but shaming them doesn't change anything. They might be shaking a rape victim. I actually like non con more since I've been raped and I'm sure that's twisted as fuck but it is what it is. I can't say if I had a healthy sexul

Premature posting, I'll finish my last though.
I can't say if I had a healthy sexuality I'd feel the same way since it's never been healthy but regardless of that it's something I enjoy, and apparently lots of women enjoy it for whatever reason; and it's not bc they condone rape or actually want to be raped.

Well, sometimes people can get butthurt so I explained myself beforehand.

This is a warning. Because what I'm about to say might sound insensitive to rape victims, as if I'm trying to apply one experience of rape to all experiences. That is not the case, but I am not going to deny that my intentions and my words can have two different meanings to different people. And, if you do decide to read on, anyway, I apologize in advance if I do end up making those same people feel that way, anyway:

No, that's not the theory behind non con as you describe it. The theory behind non con is that women are sexual objects who should never have a say in their sexual choices, so actually the opposite of what you are saying the theory is. Many women who have been raped have mentioned this as the theme's raison d'etre. They actively describe rape in fiction the same way they would describe rape in reality (and this is directed at the OP, who described such people as being butthurt. Please think a little before doing so, next time, because you are the one who is actively shaming rape victims). Non-con as I would describe it is ALWAYS consensual, it's just played as non-con. Again, there are rape victims who are surprisingly more open to this than many seem to think. And that's where your theory would come in. But too often that's not what non-con looks like. I would say it more often looks like the former.

Nmv, I found it :'D

Where is it? (´･ω･｀)

i honestly did the first time i saw that person, i dont know why tho HAHA