First of all, I want to say that I'm sorry you're feeling frustrated and that you've had to deal with this kind of behavior. There are a lot of fujoshis online that take their interest in yaoi too far and blur the line between fictional yaoi and actual gay relationships in real life. That isn't okay, and I understand why you're feeling defensive an......
despite liking yaoi i really dont claim myself as a fujoshi. i just read yaoi and like the uke/seme trope because well.. its gay porn and its the type im interested in. i dont link it with real life and dont sexual real men at all. people who do are disgusting.. i even tried watching actual gay porn and i got bored and felt absolutely nothing. ill ......
DUUUUUUUUUDE Y'ALL HAVE A VERY *VERY* DISTORTED AND KINDA ROMANTIC DELUSION WITH PSYCHOPATHS -tho I can't blame you since pop culture has done a lot of hurt-. I'm gonna try and make it as simple as possible bc this shit is long and confusing af. Let me get my psychology degree notes heh. Psychopathy is -nowadays- treated as a personality disorder......

there are people called "sasaengs" (korean term) you know, obsessive fans who stalk their idols, wait outside their homes or purposely book the same flights, those who get very possessive and disrespectful when their idol gets into a relationship/gets married. they invade privacy. probably every famous artist in the world have these sasaengs.
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