She deserves better ;v;
And damn wish I knew about the transphobia beforehand
J is transgender, but he's fine with his own body it seems. He hasn't gone as far as choosing pronouns for himself. He doesn't seem to mind being called "she". So if anything, he's okay with she/they pronouns.
[It doesn't matter anyway since J didn't bring up the fact that being called a man bothered him. If he doesn't care it doesn't matter.]
Been 7 yrs but I feel like dropping it