I've always hated Harem and Ecchi along with the typical Weak Ukes in manga.
For those who hate those tropes this list contains:
Smart Male Leads
♧Strong Male Leads
♤Strong Ukes
♧Strong Semes
♤Healthy Relationships
♧No Ecchi
♤No Harem
♧No Oppais
◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇◇《Enjoy》 ~♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
PS: I'll try to give a review for ever manga that I possibly can on this list. Some of them may have only plot summaries as of now.
A list of stories that will make you believe in love again
A lot of webtoons because I find them more realistic than manga these days (￣∇￣")
Note: I had to separate the completed titles so I can make space for more romance webtoons
For complete romance stories: https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1740887/
For historical romance: https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1271636/
For modern day fantasy romance:
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/799248/