I’ve often thought that as a guy I would be a catch, but then again if even 1 detail (in this case gender) was different I might be a different person. Butterfly-effect-style reply
I think LoreHappy put it quite well, the only thing I would add is that everyone is different, and has they're own tastes/kinks.
I personally seem to have a fancy for food-related stuff.
I think you should try explaining that everyone has they're own interests and that what she said hurt you. I think she probably didn't mean it spitefully. She was ...... reply