It's just too weird for me that Japan wouldn't have a proper protocol of treatment in this day and age... But I get it, it's for the plot.
I also suffered a huge accident when I was 14 and lost part of my memories, the worst part was that I practically became Dori of Finding Nemo afterwards, so I don't remember 2/3 years before the accident and a year after is just a few pieces here and there. My capacity of retaining new memories was never the same.
I had a lot trouble at school because all the knowledge was also lost and I had to learn everything again. Writing was the most difficult to pic it up because I lost the years we start to learn to write essays and the like, I was a highschool student writing like a kid that just started middle school, I felt humiliated when I read stuff I've written before the accident and I could never write like that again, it was so frustrating that I stopped and it became the most difficult thing to do.
Not remembering important things is TERRIFYING, specially when people come to talk to you and you don't know them or when they tell you things you did together and you don't know if you're actually remembering of it's just your brain creating memories based of others testimony...
It's HARD, so I hate the fact that ML lied about their lives together, but I also understand he did it because he was afraid to lose him, only someone who actually lost their memories would understand how terrifying it is.
The story is cute, but as a top myself, everything about this was incredible uncomfortable to read...The "playboy tachi" that does everything in wrong order, I wasn't that clueless even as a virgin...
Sorry, I understand that I shouldn't expect much, but I'm disappointed because I like wholesome stories, this had potential.
The author is so inexperienced with sex related content and it shows, I wish they tried things themselves before writing, it would make a good story even better.
I think it goes to show how much you care about your future partners and how things are done properly. I noticed that with a lot of comics in general, unless made by fellow queer people, don't really understand how queer sex works. It's always a fantasy version of it. The author used the excuse of the top not being with many if any virgins before, but I don't think the author understands that no matter what it takes a lot of prep to be the bottom regardless.
I'm a lesbian so I'm not the most educated on these things either but I've heard a lot of gay male couples tend to have certain days they have penetrative sex bc of all the prep and risk if they have it all the time like they show in these comics. I wish that side was shown more, it'd give an edge of reality.
BL never meant to represent LGBTQ+ community properly especially it made in Asia , mostly written by straight female for female audience it's better if we don't expect them to know fully about queer community which they only meant it give full of fantasy for audience that don't give a crap about actual thing in the first place. Better not thought that BL is reality based while it's all fetish fantasy of fujoshis in the first place.
True, but I think most manga is still way ahead all korean manhwa with their gigantic dicks... (ب_ب)
It's possible to have penetrative sex without a lot of prep, I believe washing inside is more harmful than the act itself, but that really depends of each person and their own constitution, and like you said, how they are on the day. Sadly, the majority of straight men and tops irl also don't understand the most important thing about good sex is to focus on a lot foreplay, and that's way more about it than intercourse. So that's kinda "accidentally" realistic for sensei. Since I'm bi, I understand that's the same about women, that's why lesbians are the real pro. Everyone can have sex everyday if they want, just not anal.
Yes, I understand that, I read bl for more than a decade and they also kinda helped me understand my own sexuality.
I think you hit the nail, most bl authors, being straight women and all, probably never even had a good experience with sex themselves, that's why they don't know much about it either.
I just think that, even for fantasy this one was a miss, wich is sad because I crave wholesome content since we are in another toxic era, specially with korean manhwa. It always amazes me when I think those disgusting sick things full of rape is actually written by women for other women.
Yah I m also reading yaoi/bl more than 9 years I m also straight myself so about finding my sexuality didn't come across my mind and i tend to enjoy story which is not straight, about those rape bl manhwa i assume even straight are same when it's written by men to rape women ( I'm talking about seinen plots) so both parties gives share amount of disgusting representation on each other that full fill in market to earn money, in between that reality overshadow the motive of an community that come between them is LGBTQ+ my male friend is gay he reads these stories he enjoy it but as fiction it's good people know difference between fiction and reality so they don't illusioned themselves thinking it's alright to happen to anyone in the first place , there are many people who read fucked up plot (I m also one of them) find peace in it but for some who sensitive to such things rather avoid it.
I m sure there are many mangas that talk about sexuality and stuff on real issue.
well spoken!
Yup yup, totally agree!
I also think that mangas are way ahead of manhwas but both are still mostly written for the fujoshis (straight female). I'm straight and don't really associate these works with IRL.
I also noticed that Korean manhwas are usually Cinderella stories so I appreciate it when the MCs are from the same socio-economic class which seems more common with Japanese mangas.
Sorry you're a top but I'm asking this. I'm actually writing a bl story in my language but I'm not yet there in smut or sex scene. I'm curious how bottom clean themselves , did they use enema or finger. I quite scared to look up in google and watch the actual process I saw a glimpse before and it was disgusting because it was someone poops.
I'm curious maybe you know? And really? Is it not possible to do it everyday in real life haha? Maybe 3 times a week or weekend.
Unfortunately I can't help you much with that because I'm also not the one doing it so... I have no experience.(٥↼_↼)
But, what I know is that people usually use just water from a shower head because using enema frequently is really harmful.
I think that depends on the person and their own biology. I've met people who did it almost every day and were completely fine. And I also had penetrative sex a few times without planning and encountered no accidents even though they didn't cleaned themselves beforehand.
I'm not very versed with the cleaning process because it also grosses me out, but I enjoy doing a lot of foreplay and loosening my partner up, so the key is always having plenty condoms at hand for the fingering process too.
But the most important thing, in my opinion, is that sex is way more than only intercourse. Everyone can have days that it won't work out but you can still do a lot of things together.
I had sex with a girl that could squirt, it can go pretty far but the trajectory isn't curved like that because it's released with a lot more force. Thankfully, I never watched any girl peeing, and since I'm a man I can say that's pretty much what's look like when we do it...
Even though I'm bi I would be utterly disgusted to witness that, and that's precisely that woman's goal to separate them...
Myung Ha could've/SHOULD'VE found an excuse to not get his boyfriend involved.
As a girl honestly; thanks for clearing that up
I was so confused
I mean I’m already confused since the sidestory started but oh well lol
As someone with a vag that's piss, I've never squirted but that's piss
As a guy, I can say a lot of men fantasizes waking up to their partners blowing them and other sexual actions. And I think that's totally fine if there's prior consent.
Regrettably, the view most men have about rape isn't the same women have, because men don't live with that kind of fear, it's one of a society's cancer, if you ask me. I also wonder if asians might have a slightly different view.
It's different from when Juwon did because he legit thought he was dreaming, so he had no intention, even though it's also wrong.
I'm also reall tired about rape scenes in BL...
I get that he's drunk and desperate, but c'mon, just wake your man up, it's not that hard... (ノಠ益ಠ)ノ
Totally agree! My bf told me he loves to wake up like that, but he told me that before I ever did that and I think that’s a difference in real life. I would never do something to someone while he is asleep if we didn’t talked about it before and so should be it for everyone…
yeah it's called somno. which is cool IF you have consent from your partner before hand. bottom did not get consent and that's why it's rape.