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Some people in the comments are kinda harsh on Tamaki, though the overwhleming majority is like "SHII PLEZ STOP" (hehe I love this response) but I do want to address the Tamaki situation, he was definitely neglected as a kid, his mom used him for money (exploiting his cuteness on insta), also had literal sex infront of him (why tf does she not have boundaries), he didn't even know proper hygiene until he saw Shii's routine in his stable house, he saw his mother dealing horribly with breakups and emotionally unwound in front of him, she even inadvertently said horrible traumatizing things like she wanted to die infront of him causing a weight to be put on Tamaki's shoulder to prove to her that his existence means that she shouldn't, of course he would have an innate aversion to sex, among the slew of guys his mother dated (and had sex with INFRONT OF HIM) they were all toxic and in the end he of course would view sex negatively since that is something they all had in common. He was even used by his mother as kind of like the emotional support after her break ups, something a child shoudn't go through, I think his reactions are completely justified though I don't think he is ace, Shii should just patiently wait for him if he really loves him as he says, he should help him get over his trauma, not force new ones upon him, though, and hopefully I am not wrong, I do think Shii wouldn't rape Tamaki

wow actually enforcing boundaries and the other getting the message and laying off.... this may be the actual first time I'm seeing this happen??? But in a way one got mad but they got over it. Like, it's okay to mess up a bit and get a bit angry sometimes. I think this is making a bigger impression BECAUSE it's more likey to be mistakes and little fights along the way when you don't know all about what your partner like or not. And if one is being pushy, it's perfectly reasonable to get angry. Showing this and not making the end of the world, but actually a chance to reflect on the mistakes, that's!! good! stuff!!!!
Other authors, please take notes, I want more of that.