
Having 17 sexual partners is relatively high for any age, and especially for someone who’s only 24. Acknowledging this doesn’t mean being judgmental. Everyone is free to make their own choices, and as long as those experiences are consensual and safe, it’s their personal business. Still, I think it’s important to be honest and not normalize something just because it’s common in modern times or in other cultures.
how??? did that make us conservative??? do you even know what it means? God, how can someone have an opinion in modern times without another flaring up because we found a little problem with what they love.
I am not asking you to agree with me but that doesn't mean you can call us judgemental. It makes you look like a 13 year old!
having 17 partners when you're young and just started to taste what life's like far away from your parents is not something abnormal. people have sex, acquire new experiences, experiment with their bodies and desires when they're young. I feel it's even more intense when you're gay, or just have really strict parents, and it's the first time you're doing this against the societal norms, your family's beliefs or overall just fear of being yourself. it's a freedom you finally have, and it's like making up for all those years and finally understand what your body wants.
nothing about this is abnormal. no one is hurt, and as long as it's done safe and legal, we, the outsiders, should have no opinion about what's normal or not; we couldn't know all the details, what the person in question is feeling and why they feel like sleeping around. we should normalize thinking about our life only, and not bring down people just because they decide to do certain things that for some of us seem extreme, unnecessary or too much.
You’re calling us judgmental and conservative, yet your response is exactly that—judgmental and intolerant of a differing opinion, telling us to shut up and calling us names. That kind of reaction says more about you than us. If a simple difference of opinion stirs this kind of hostile reaction in you, maybe you should reflect on why you're so triggered.
Although you're contradicting yourself by stating that something is okay and we should mind our own business and yet not "normalize" it, I believe you do understand that what you prefer to do with your life and body, and what you perceive as a lot or little it is not the reality of everyone and thus nothing should be limited to one majority's or minority's mindset. People are all different and that's okay, and your statements are purely personal and that's okay too, just don't try to make it a fact next time. Have a nice day.
I appreciate your response, but I don’t see a contradiction. Respecting someone’s right to live how they want doesn’t mean you have to agree with their choices. People can do what they want, but that doesn’t mean every choice should be seen as normal or beyond criticism.
You called my view personal and it is. So is yours.
Have a good one.
I think this author's talent really shines in comedy. They should definitely write another comedic BL.