DubL-D's Topics (92)

I like how he told her "Run" and she decided to drop another couple lines. I guess she chose the right 'stun' words to say.

*Probably just for the sake of the pheromone issue but, it really gets you thinking back and questioning more stuff.

As a mom of an 11 yr old boy...i am very scared by that pie chart. Very scared indeed.

Don’t worry, it’s not based on real facts. It’s in their universe with the pheromones

Hopefully he doesn't try to grow up too fast, and you don't seem to be one of those OVERLY stifling parents, since you're here.. All one can really do is explain things when appropriate and hopefully you're not in an area that glosses over Health, Sex Ed, and Social Studies.
[Not trying to offend, and I'm Not trying to control/judge your parenting, btw. Just a little amateur feedback]

The real statistics for the age when most people lose their virginity is:
20-21 in Japan
18-19 in North America, Australia
Mexico 20-21
New Zeeland & Europe as a whole <18 (under 18, I’d say around 14-18 years is when most lose their virginity at least in Sweden where I live

Lol. I am A bit a mix of of all that. Thankfully he isnt trying to mentally grow up too fast, its his body that is betraying me. I am very open ti talks about anything with him and because my hubby is in denial of his age will probably be the one to talk to him. No offense taken.

You have just made my whole month! Thank you!

I guess I fit the North America standard ^_^ ...but I might have to look up stats for the Caribbean.

Me, even though i am American was definitely more japan or Australia..lol

I don’t know which I will belong to - since I’m 15 at the moment (and a virgin) + I haven’t had a real “crush” - been attracted to someone since never lol
Like sure I’ve definitely had a few (celebrities or unknown people on the internet) crushes but that’s more like “I like his style, I COULD date someone like that if they had a good personality” and people who’ve chatted with - well, they’re nice and all that but I don’t feel attracted to them it’s more like appreciation
Asexual? Straight? Don’t give a fuck? Idk & I don’t care I’ll feel attracted to someone in the future & probably loose my virginity lol

I was the same. No need to rush.

**SORRY IF TMI, JUST TRYING TO HELP SUPPORT** -_-
Lynda 79 is right. Definitely no need to rush! Plus, as long as it's someone that respects you and it's consensual, AND LEGAL (since you're 15), you don't even have to be dating the person at the time of. An ex referred to his penis as an "anaconda"...never saw it myself but I was not swayed nor enticed in the least. Peeved really, bcuz I actually happen to like Anacondas [they're badass]. ^_^ Was 15 at the time, fast forward a bit and I lost it to my current partner, at 19 -they were 21 and also a virgin. Funny thing is, after we a few times "..did do the nasty in the pasty.." [Fry, Futurama reference -sorry], they asked me out. I could've slept with other people I trusted and was willing to but certain things turned me off or it didn't develop that far. One past fool (non-virgin), believed some stupid saying about virgins becoming TOO attached (presumably me), even though they'd been all gung-ho to be sexual the 1st time we hung out alone and I'd turned them down.

People are weird, shady and dangerous etc. People are respectful, patient and interesting etc. So, you decide. No need for it to be the utmost romantic on the 1st go but it should be a 2 part job/decision and 90% comfortable (it varies). Had quite a few crushes but couldn't imagine anything sexual with MOST. Didn't crush on current beau beforehand -started as coworkers, to friends, to "bumping boots," then together..

Yeah I definitely know that I don’t have too rush. My mother have told me & explained that I’m free to choose for myself etc about what I want - not someone else. (She has done it for as long as I remember - my memories are bad so I barely remember anything) while my father came earlier this year (maybe spring) and started talking about it, my mother & me started laughing - since he’s 4-5 years later

That's cute, but truly such a DAD thing to do. ^_^ Should call that 'Dad timing'..

Definitely, they both suck at understanding stuff (just in general) then when it comes to “girls struggle” (periods for example) AND they suck at listening unless you’re pretty much screaming that you’ll kill yourself or wanna die

Also:
My father taking care of me & my little sister is like taking care of the dogs. He feed us, buy us stuff but he don’t raise us, tell us no etc

Lol Is he just an 'out-of-sight, out-of-mind' type?

Pretty much lol

Ha! Found myself!