Nyamh's Things

Hm. I LOVE being single and have really lived the life thinking that I would happily keep being single for the rest of my life. I took great joy and relief in being single. And then shortly before I turned 31, I met someone. And despite myself, I fell in love with her. Then I was suddenly placed into a position where I had to choose between my two ......   3 reply

Hmm...forgiveness isn't a "should." In the end, they said or did something that hurt you. Your feelings are valid, too. Plus, what does a person want from our forgiveness? To feel less guilty? To ease their shame? To ease the hurt they caused us? And to understand their intentions, you can ask them this: "If I'm still hurting from what you said......   reply

Have you tried turning it on and off again?   reply

Oh, my word. Yes, always. I made a few comments on this site earlier today that I tried really hard not to be careful about...I actively made it so I allowed my emotions to roam and didn't cover the whole of what I thought and just let a single thing run amok...I'm hella anxious about it still lol! Like, usually, I'm way too cognizant of the fact ......   1 reply

Ahem...well, you see...I was kind of a late bloomer and an early riser all at once lmao I--uh--was making out with a classmate on the school bus in fifth grade. We'd hide behind the seats at the very back of the bus and just kiss and kiss and kiss. Making out for a while, like, for months probably. Until one day, I just couldn't handle the worry,......   1 reply

I have the opposite problem. Every second of the day, I struggle with mental health issues and work my hardest to not let others see, so that I don't cause them pain or discomfort. Though, mental health is a big part of my life, so my people all know what I'm living with...but I never heap it on them. That's what my therapist and psychiatrist are f......   reply