I don't know how many fujoshi's actually wish they were a gay man but I would say that that's definitely a minority. A lot of yaoi is well, painfully, shoujo-ish, the only difference is that there isn't a female lead. It really isn't meant to be realistic...(not speaking for all yaoi, just the majority). The uke/seme dynamic is just something fun t...... reply
Depends on where you're getting piercing and your own personal pain tolerance. It would be best to figure out what piercing you would like first so that people can give you a more direct answer. reply