
I mean, i just assumed that dear eldest might have noticed that Ashley is trying not to stand out more than her sisters or is trying not to mess up coz shes not actually really part of that world.
It just happened that her noble stepmother is her guardian now so she's being exposed to these aristocratic practices and events, etc...
But idrk ( ̄∇ ̄")
Ahhhh seeing this part illustrated is giving me so much serotonin