Minnie September 29, 2024 1:03 pm

would it still be considered grooming if the older person has no intention of romantically loving the younger one? its just that the younger one is adamantly in love with the older one and the older one keeps on rejecting them before deciding to just ultimately acceptinh the affection of the younger one

PS. this is a general observation from past BLs that follow this troupe

    haesoo September 29, 2024 1:18 pm

    Well, not really, not until it involves in sexual acts

    buttcruncher September 29, 2024 5:23 pm

    grooming can happen to adults too. it's when there's a power imbalance and the person w power takes advantage of the other person thru manipulation, isolation, exploitation, and abuse.

    if the person in power draws boundaries and respects and encourages the other person's autonomy and growth, it's not grooming.

    i don't think there's anything wrong when the older person gets worn down by the younger person in a romantic pursuit in fiction bc for a large part it's wish fulfillment for the younger person, but i do expect the person in power to behave differently irl.

Minnie August 4, 2024 7:21 am

does anybody know the title of a BL manhwa where the MCs of the story is a rich and sadistic ceo (fair complexion) and his younger brother is his bodyguard (he is tan) both of them dont like each other and the uke is like a demon (this is a love triangle) and the ending is that the uke and bodyguard got together

Minnie November 10, 2023 1:37 pm

this is a manhwa btw, the ml is a sultan he has tan skin, gold eyes, the fl has white hair and pink eyes, the comic is more or less r18 not sure i forgot the title helppp

    pat~tulog November 10, 2023 1:47 pm

    its not the sultan's love right? the sultan's love the fl doesn't have a pink eyes but the ml is fr sooo hawt lol

    Minnie November 11, 2023 1:23 am

    no not itttt, it was trending and fairly new i just forgot the to screenshot the title

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